Best of
Self-Help

1984

The Choice


Og Mandino - 1984
    You have options. You need not spend your life wallowing in failure, ignorance, grief, poverty, shame, and self-pity. But, hold on! If this is true then why have so many among us apparently elected to live in that manner? The answer is obvious. Those who live in unhappy failure have never exercised their options for a better way of life because they have never been aware that they had any Choices !

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion


Robert B. Cialdini - 1984
    Dr. Robert Cialdini is the seminal expert in the rapidly expanding field of influence and persuasion. His thirty-five years of rigorous, evidence-based research along with a three-year program of study on what moves people to change behavior has resulted in this highly acclaimed book.You'll learn the six universal principles, how to use them to become a skilled persuader—and how to defend yourself against them. Perfect for people in all walks of life, the principles of Influence will move you toward profound personal change and act as a driving force for your success.

Mirror Work: 21 Days to Heal Your Life


Louise L. Hay - 1984
    Now, in MIRROR WORK: 21 DAYS TO HEAL YOUR LIFE, the popular teacher and author offers the first book dedicated to her signature practice for personal transformation. The Mirror Principle, one of Louise’s core teachings, holds that our experience of life mirrors our relationship with ourselves; unless we see ourselves as loveable, the world can be a dark and lonely place. Mirror work—looking at oneself in a mirror and repeating positive affirmations—is Louise’s powerful method for learning to love oneself and experience the world as a safe and loving place. Like her successful video course, Loving Yourself, MIRROR WORK lays out a 21-day program of teachings and exercises to help readers deepen their relationship with themselves and live a joyous and fulfilling life. “Doing mirror work,” Louise tells readers, “is one of the most loving gifts you can give yourself.” Each of the 21 days is organized around a theme, such as monitoring self-talk, overcoming fear, releasing anger, healing relationships, forgiving self and others, receiving prosperity, and living stress-free. The daily program involves an exercise in front of the mirror, affirmations, journaling, an inspiring Heart Thought to ponder, and a guided meditation. Packed with practical guidance and support, presented in Louise’s warmly personal words, MIRROR WORK—or Mirror Play, as she likes to call it—is designed to help readers:·         Learn a deeper level of self-care ·         Gain confidence in their own inner guidance system ·         Develop awareness of their soul gifts ·         Overcome resistance to change ·         Boost self-esteem ·         Cultivate love and compassion in their relationships with self and others In just three weeks, the reader can firmly establish the practice of Mirror Work as an ongoing vehicle for positive growth and self-care, and a path to a full, rich life.

Tough Times Never Last, but Tough People Do!


Robert H. Schuller - 1984
    Robert H. Schuller's new  bestseller, Tough Times Never Last, But  Tough People Do! Dr. Schuller shows you  how to build a positive self-image, no matter what  your problem. Whether it's unemployment, poor  health, loneliness, fear or anything  else that blocks your success, you can turn your  negative into a positive. No matter how tough  times get, you have the potential to achieve the best  of life. Through Dr. Schuller's dynamic  principles, you can learn: * 4 ways to evaluate a  new idea * 10 commandments of possibility thinking  * 5 principles for putting problems in a proper  perspective * 18 principles of leadership * 5 phases  necessary for the faith to move mountains * 5 ways  to overcome a 'brownout' and prevent a burnout *  25 action words to get you started and never let  you quit

The Psychology of Achievement


Brian Tracy - 1984
    Drawing on the work of leading psychologists and behavioral researchers, Brian Tracy -- America's "success mentor" -- demonstrates the attitude, deep self-knowledge and pin-pointed goals that are important factors in achieving great success. He'll help you identify your own "area of excellence" and master the tools that make each achiever tick, including:How to sharpen your natural intuitionHow to increase your brain powerHow to change thoughts from negative to positiveHow to break bad habits quickly and painlesslyPacked with practical advice that lead to extraordinary results, The Psychology of Achievement will help you use every ounce of your potential

You Can Heal Your Life


Louise L. Hay - 1984
    Louise’s key message in this powerful work is: “If we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed.” Louise explains how limiting beliefs and ideas are often the cause of illness, and how you can change your thinking…and improve the quality of your life.

Dale Carnegie's Lifetime Plan for Success: How to Win Friends and Influence People & How to Stop Worrying and Start Living


Dale Carnegie - 1984
    

Please Understand Me: Character and Temperament Types


David Keirsey - 1984
    After 30 years of treating hundreds of teaching, parenting, marriage, and management problems, Dr. Keirsey now challenges the reader to "Abandon the Pygmalion Project", that endless and fruitless attempt to change the Other into a carbon copy of Oneself.

The Winning Attitude: Your Pathway to Personal Success


John C. Maxwell - 1984
    You can develop the attitude of mind which brings, peace, courage, and success.In "The Winning Attitude," John Maxwell shares insights from real life experiences showing how to recognize and attain the winning attitude to overcome life's difficulties, win people over, and turn problems into opportunities

Loving Each Other


Leo F. Buscaglia - 1984
    He asks such important questions, as: How do we best interweave our lives with our loved ones? Do we change our way of relating depending on the circumstances: If we fail in one relationship, can we succeed in others? In this exhilarating book, Leo doesn't give pat answers. He presents alternatives and suggests behavior that opens the way to truly loving each other. He recalls with heartwarming detail the importance of his own family and friendships in helping him to be open to grow and to love.

Constructive Living


David K. Reynolds - 1984
    Constructive Living (CL) presents an educational method of approaching life realistically and thoughtfully. The action aspect of CL emphasizes accepting reality (including feelings), focusing on purposes, and doing what needs doing. The reflection aspect of CL enables us to understand the present and past more clearly and to live in recognition of the support we receive from the world.

The Path of Least Resistance: Learning to Become the Creative Force in Your Own Life


Robert Fritz - 1984
    Discover the steps of creating; the importance of creating what you truly love, how to focus on the creative process to move from where you are to where you want to be, and much more.

The Science of Successful Living


Raymond Charles Barker - 1984
    This book is designed to teach you that your habitual thinking and imagery mold, fashion, and create your destiny; for as a man thinketh in his subconscious mind, so is he.Do you know the answers?Why does one man have a beautiful, luxurious home while another man lives out a meager existence in a slum?Why is one man sad and another man happy?Why is one man joyous and prosperous and another man poor and miserable?Why is one man fearful and anxious and another full of faith and confidence?Why is one man a great success and another an abject failure?Why is one speaker outstanding and immensely popular and another mediocre and unpopular?Why is one man a genius in his work or profession while the other man toils and moils all his life without doing or accomplishing anything worthwhile?Why is one man healed of a so-called incurable disease and another isn't?Why is it so many good, kind religious people suffer the tortures of the damned in their mind and body?Why is it many immoral and irreligious people succeed and prosper and enjoy radiant health?Why is one woman happily married and her sister very unhappy and frustrated?The answers to these questions can be found in this book....

Fighting to Win: Samurai Techniques for Your Work and Life


David J. Rogers - 1984
    The book offers useful methods for overcoming these obstacles. It draws on history and uses Samurai and Zen techniques and other inspirational material to help the reader devise strategies for facing and overcoming opponents and achieving a better life.

Making Peace with Your Past


H. Norman Wright - 1984
    Norman Wright helps you unload the burden of excess baggage from your childhood, resolve unpleasant past events, and reform your ingrained patterns of behavior.

More Help for Your Nerves


Claire Weekes - 1984
    Discusses the development, symptoms, prevention, and treatment of nervous disorders, examining the problem of nervous fatigue, explaining how to break the pattern of nervous suffering, and answering queries about nerve ailments.

Go for It!: How to Win at Love, Work, and Play


Irene C. Kassorla - 1984
    

The Original Works of Eunice D. Ingham


Eunice D. Ingham - 1984
    Book by Ingham, Eunice D., Byers, Dwight C.

How to Stop Looking for Someone Perfect and Find Someone to Love


Judith Sills - 1984
    You want to meet that certain someone and settle in for a long commitment. But there's no one out there, you say. Stop right there! Judith Sills, a practicing psychologist, will teach you to screen potential mates quickly and accurately, discover your relationship patterns and how and when to break them, and, most importantly, to rid yourself of destructive dead-end thinking forever.

Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism


Al-Anon Family Groups - 1984
    

Visiting teaching: A call to serve


Johanna Flynn - 1984
    We have not done this to present a picture of perfection, but rather, one of motivation and inspiration. The attitudes, affections, and ideas these characters portray may help us capture the overall view of some of the problems, challenges, and goals of visiting teaching. We sincerely hope that you will find these messages comforting and challenging. As we struggle in our personal callings as visiting teachers, we are continually renewed and strengthened by you, our sweet and noble sisters.

Stages of Consciousness: Meditations on the Boundaries of the Soul


Georg Kuhlewind - 1984
    All that we call thinking is the habitual association of finished, dead thoughts. But these thoughts were alive once and every new moment of understanding is a breath from the level of the living present.Stages of Consciousness proposes that we train ourselves in the stage of consciousness that we occasionally glimpse as intuition. Beginning with the intuition of the true self in the living thinking--"the fundamental experience of the spirit"--the author goes on to describe practical exercise in concentration and contemplation. Georg Kuhlewind describes his purpose in his foreword: "Modern humanity's most difficult task is to become aware of, to see and to overcome the threshold of mirrored consciousness. The first essay attempts to show how Rudolf Steiner proposes reaching this goal in his Philosophy of Freedom. Consideration of the threshold lying between thinking and what has been thought leads the one making this experiment to 'the fundamental experience of the spirit.' The third essay attempts to develop a methodology for the first steps in the realm of concentration and contemplation. The last essays set forth the outcome: how, in the observation of the soul's boundaries, these boundaries become transparent and permeable. The form of the communication is such that the reader, tracing the lines of the movements of thinking, steps into its fabric." Contents: Introduction by Christopher BamfordAuthor's ForewordThe Two Stages of ConsciousnessThe Fundamental Experience of the SpiritConcentration and ContemplationThe Boundaries of the SoulThe Secret of PerceivingThe Spiritual Communion of Modern HumanityThe Sense of BeingThe Light of the Earth

Force of Righteousness


Kenneth Copeland - 1984
    It is the very nature of God now living in you to change you. The force of righteousness is God's powerful provision to make salvation meaningful in the real issues of daily living here on earth. In Kenneth Copeland's The Force of Righteousness you'll discover how to: - Accept the gift of righteousness-rather than trying to earn it - Break free from a sin-conscious life - Stand in God's presence without a sense of guilt or condemnation - Triumph over every trick Satan throws at you-and more! Don't let anything hold you back from accepting all God has for you. Discover your covenant rights and allow The Force of Righteousness to change your life. You'll never be the same again!

Complete Guide to Florida Gardening


Stan DeFreitas - 1984
    Addressing the needs of gardening novices, seasoned hobbyists, and horticultural professionals alike, the author created a reference book that no Florida gardener should be without.

Self-Esteem: Gift from God


Ruth McRoberts Ward - 1984
    Ward challenges us to discover our uniqueness and to enjoy who we are. She encourages us to discover our God-designed temperament type in order to arrive at healthy self-esteem and self-worth. This self-acceptance automatically raises our level of understanding and lowers tension in every arena and age of life, making it “fun” to celebrate differences rather than feel obligated to think and function according to another's rules. Self-Esteem—Gift from God answers our questions regarding the differences in people by using quizzes and real-life examples sprinkled with humor. Readers will painlessly and proudly discover that their personal preferences, though perhaps very different, are normal and “ok.” Encouragement to join hands with God by using our special gifts to improve our spiritual confidences forms the foundation of self-esteem.

Tough Minded Management


Joe D. Batten - 1984
    Suggests practical solutions to common management problems, and discusses performance, motivation, control, courage, and integrity.

The True Joy of Positive Living: An Autobiography


Norman Vincent Peale - 1984
    True Joy of Positive Living: An Autobiography

How to Get Going When You Can Barely Get Out of Bed


Linda J. Bailey - 1984
    

Reconcilable Differences: with Study Guide


Jim A. Talley - 1984
    This book provides practical, biblical advice on how to resolve conflicts and develop a relationship based on mutual love, respect, and trust.

The love that never faileth


Barbara B. Smith - 1984