Best of
Communication

2016

Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It


Chris Voss - 2016
    Never Split the Difference takes you inside his world of high-stakes negotiations, revealing the nine key principles that helped Voss and his colleagues succeed when it mattered the most – when people’s lives were at stake.Rooted in the real-life experiences of an intelligence professional at the top of his game, Never Split the Difference will give you the competitive edge in any discussion.

TED Talks: The Official TED Guide to Public Speaking


Chris J. Anderson - 2016
      Since taking over TED in the early 2000s, Chris Anderson has shown how carefully crafted short talks can be the key to unlocking empathy, stirring excitement, spreading knowledge, and promoting a shared dream. Done right, a talk can electrify a room and transform an audience’s worldview. Done right, a talk is more powerful than anything in written form.         This book explains how the miracle of powerful public speaking is achieved, and equips you to give it your best shot. There is no set formula; no two talks should be the same. The goal is for you to give the talk that only you can give. But don’t be intimidated. You may find it more natural than you think.         Chris Anderson has worked behind the scenes with all the TED speakers who have inspired us the most, and here he shares insights from such favorites as Sir Ken Robinson, Amy Cuddy, Bill Gates, Elizabeth Gilbert, Salman Khan, Dan Gilbert, Mary Roach, Matt Ridley, and dozens more — everything from how to craft your talk’s content to how you can be most effective on stage. This is the 21st-century’s new manual for truly effective communication and it is a must-read for anyone who is ready to create impact with their ideas.

Negotiating the Impossible: How to Break Deadlocks and Resolve Ugly Conflicts (Without Money or Muscle)


Deepak Malhotra - 2016
    Others are more difficult. And then there are situations that seem hopeless. Conflict is escalating, people are getting aggressive, and no one is willing to back down. And to top it off, you have little power, money, or other resources to work with. Harvard professor (and negotiation consultant advisor to organizations around the world) Deepak Malhotra shows how to defuse even the most potentially explosive situations and to find success when things seem impossible. Malhotra illustrates key lessons using behind-the-scenes stories of fascinating real-life negotiations, including drafting the US Constitution, resolving the Cuban Missile Crisis, bringing peace to Northern Ireland, ending bitter disputes in the NFL and NHL, and beating the odds in complex business situations. But he also shows how these same principles and tactics can be applied in everyday life as well, from making corporate deals, negotiating job offers, and resolving business disputes to tackling obstacles in personal relationships and even negotiating with children.

Simply Said: Communicating Better at Work and Beyond


Jay Sullivan - 2016
    Do you ever feel as though your message hasn't gotten across? Do details get lost along the way? Have tense situations ever escalated unnecessarily? Do people buy into your ideas? It all comes down to communication. We all communicate, but few of us do it well. From tough presentations to everyday transactions, there is no scenario that cannot be improved with better communication skills. This book presents an all-encompassing guide to improving your communication, based on the Exec|Comm philosophy: we are all better communicators when we focus focus less on ourselves and more on other people. More than just a list of tips, this book connects skills with scenarios and purpose to help you hear and be heard. You'll learn the skills to deliver great presentations and clear and persuasive messages, handle difficult conversations, effectively manage, lead with authenticity and more, as you discover the secrets of true communication. Communication affects every interaction every day. Why not learn to do it well? This book provides comprehensive guidance toward getting your message across, and getting the results you want. Shift your focus from yourself to other people Build a reputation as a good listener Develop your written and oral communications for the greatest impact Inspire and influence others Communicate more effectively in any business or social situation Did that email come across as harsh? Did you offend someone unintentionally? Great communication skills give you the power to influence someone's thinking and guide them to where you need them to be. Simply Said teaches you the critical skills that make you more effective in business and in life.

The Compelling Communicator: Mastering the Art and Science of Exceptional Presentation Design


Tim Pollard - 2016
    

How To Stop Worrying And Start Living & How To Make Friends And Influence People (Unabridged)


Dale Carnegie - 2016
    How to Stop Worrying and Start Living – The book's goal is to lead the reader to a more enjoyable and fulfilling life, helping them to become more aware of, not only themselves, but others around them. Carnegie tries to address the everyday nuances of living, in order to get the reader to focus on the more important aspects of life.How to Win Friends and Influence People - can enable you to make friends quickly and easily, help you to win people to your way of thinking, increase your influence, your prestige, your ability to get things done, as well as enable you to win new clients, new customers.Dale Carnegie (1888–1955) was an American writer and lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), a massive bestseller that remains popular today. Excerpt:"I came home to my lonely room each night with a sick headache-a headache bred and fed by disappointment, worry, bitterness, and rebellion. I was rebelling because the dreams I had nourished back in my college days had turned into nightmares. Was this life? Was this the vital adventure to which I had looked forward so eagerly?"

Better Presentations: A Guide for Scholars, Researchers, and Wonks


Jonathan Schwabish - 2016
    Most of us approach this task by converting a written document into slides, but the result is often a text-heavy presentation saddled with bullet points, stock images, and graphs too complex for an audience to decipher--much less understand. Presenting is fundamentally different from writing, and with only a little more time, a little more effort, and a little more planning, you can communicate your work with force and clarity.Designed for presenters of scholarly or data-intensive content, "Better Presentations "details essential strategies for developing clear, sophisticated, and visually captivating presentations. Following three core principles--visualize, unify, and focus--"Better Presentations" describes how to visualize data effectively, find and use images appropriately, choose sensible fonts and colors, edit text for powerful delivery, and restructure a written argument for maximum engagement and persuasion. With a range of clear examples for what to do (and what not to do), the practical package offered in" Better Presentations" shares the best techniques to display work and the best tactics for winning over audiences. It pushes presenters past the frustration and intimidation of the process to more effective, memorable, and persuasive presentations.

Exaholics: Breaking Your Addiction to an Ex Love


Lisa Marie Bobby - 2016
    Up till now, people recovering from other problems were able to get real help—like AA and rehab—while those struggling in the aftermath of traumatic breaks dealt with platitudes and friends insisting they should "get over it already." But now Exaholics Anonymous treats getting over an ex like kicking a chemical habit.   Written by counselor and therapist Dr. Lisa Bobby, Exaholics offers meaningful support and advice to anyone trapped in the obsessive pain of a broken, or dying, attachment. She helps the brokenhearted heal, showing them, on a deep level, how to develop a conceptual framework for their experience, understand the emotional processes at work inside themselves, find the path to recovery, and free themselves of shame, injured ego, and remorse. In-depth case studies of others' journeys will illuminate the way to future happiness.

5 Chairs 5 Choices: Own Your Behaviours, Master Your Communication, Determine Your Success


Louise Evans - 2016
    We spend about eighty percent of our day at work, the rest is at home. If we have a bad day at work we are likely to take that negativity home with us and vice versa. It is of paramount importance that we create healthy environments in the spaces that most affect our lives by giving of our best and receiving the like in return. The 5 Chairs is a powerful and systematic method which helps us master our own behaviours and manage the behaviours of others. To be a good leader is to contribute to the success and happiness of everyone, at work and at home, on a conscious level. The 5 Chairs offer 5 Choices. Which will you choose?"One of the most practical books on emotional intelligence that I have ever read." Richard Barrett, Chairman and Founder of the Barrett Values Centre."Louise's work is for people with the intelligence and humility to believe that in life one can always improve, one can try to understand before judging and one can listen to other people's convictions no matter how diverse. In an increasingly multicultural, globalised world where managing diversity is key to success, Louise's guidelines should be a moral obligation." Franco Moscetti CEO, Axel Glocal Business, previously CEO of Amplifon Ltd"The 5 Chair experience is powerful. After reading the book you feel more equipped, excited even, to manage your daily behaviours and conversations in a completely new way, both at work and at home. It's a real game changer." David Trickey CEO at TCO International and Partner at Viral Change TM"Louise's groundbreaking book is for anyone who is interested in bringing more empathy, emotional intelligence and consciousness into their career (and into their daily life). The examples in this insightful book are practical and easy to integrate, and it's a must-read for anyone who wants to be an inspiring and more effective Leader." Ellen Looyen, Bestselling Author, "Branded for Life!"

Fifty Shades of Narcissism: The Secret Language of Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths


Shahida Arabi - 2016
    This short guide is meant to be a precursor and preview to my more in-depth, upcoming book, Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself.

Open: Get Ready for the Adventure of a Lifetime


David Gregory - 2016
    Are you ready to take the next step?From the New York Times bestselling author of Dinner with a Perfect Stranger, Open will forever change the way you think about faith.It wasn't the end of the world. It was just the end of Emma Jameson's world. Fresh off the heels of a devastating breakup and floundering in her career, Emma is struggling to come to grips with why God allows so much pain in our lives, why He seems so absent when she needs Him most, and why the Gospel accounts--our supposed guide for how to lead a contented Christian life--feel so completely irrelevant.Then one day, a mysterious envelope arrives in Emma's mailbox with the word Open written on the outside. Inside the envelope is a card bearing the following message: "For a real adventure with Jesus, go through the nearest open door."Skeptical, but having absolutely nothing to lose, Emma steps through the pantry door, only to find herself instantly transported back to the first century, where she is taken on a personal tour of various Gospel accounts by none other than Jesus himself--an experience that radically challenges Emma's perception of the Gospels and what it really means to be a Christian.

Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade


Robert B. Cialdini - 2016
    This “privileged moment for change” prepares people to be receptive to a message before they experience it. Optimal persuasion is achieved only through optimal pre-suasion. In other words, to change “minds” a pre-suader must also change “states of mind.”His first solo work in over thirty years, Cialdini’s Pre-Suasion draws on his extensive experience as the most cited social psychologist of our time and explains the techniques a person should implement to become a master persuader. Altering a listener’s attitudes, beliefs, or experiences isn’t necessary, says Cialdini—all that’s required is for a communicator to redirect the audience’s focus of attention before a relevant action.From studies on advertising imagery to treating opiate addiction, from the annual letters of Berkshire Hathaway to the annals of history, Cialdini draws on an array of studies and narratives to outline the specific techniques you can use on online marketing campaigns and even effective wartime propaganda. He illustrates how the artful diversion of attention leads to successful pre-suasion and gets your targeted audience primed and ready to say, “Yes.”

She Believed She Could, So She Did


Kathy Weller - 2016
    80-page hardcover book. 3-1/4" wide x 4" high. Kathy Weller has struck a chord with her creative interpretations of inspirational quotes, hand-lettered and illuminated with her uniquely appealing art. Evolving as a way to help the artist cope during a recuperative time, these words of wisdom and humor resonated with others, creating a vast community of like souls through social media. This collection celebrates inner strength, belief, and the power of dreaming big.

Love Busters: Protect Your Marriage by Replacing Love-Busting Patterns with Love-Building Habits


Willard F. Harley Jr. - 2016
    Harley--Now Revised and Repackaged to Highlight Six Changes in Habits That Will Save Your MarriageAccording to relationship expert and bestselling author Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., after couples get married, they often develop habits that slowly undermine the love they have for each other. If tolerated, these Love Busters--selfish demands, disrespectful judgments, angry outbursts, dishonesty, annoying habits, and independent behavior--will destroy a couple's love for each other. The solution, however, isn't merely to avoid these negative behaviors and attitudes. Rather, it's to cultivate Love Builders--positive habits that will strengthen the relationship.With Dr. Harley's expert guidance, couples will be able to avoid the major causes of marital unhappiness and disappointment. Instead of tearing their marriage apart, they will learn to build it into the marriage they had needed and wanted. This book is a perfect companion to His Needs, Her Needs and will be useful to pastors, counselors, and couples.

Viralnomics: How to Get People to Want to Talk About You


Jonathan Goodman - 2016
    A must-read for anyone who wants to win at social.” - Jonah Berger (NYT Bestselling author of Contagious: Why Things Catch On) ***Discover how to get the right type of people to talk about you.*** ARE YOU SHARING GREAT WORK, but it seems nobody is listening? Does it seem like you’re at the mercy of social networks’ mysterious algorithms? Do you feel like it is an insurmountable task to understand and leverage social media? In Viralnomics: How to Get People to Want to Talk About You, Jonathan Goodman shows you how to appeal to people’s desires and get them to share your message as an extension of themselves. In this engaging, entertaining, and educational quick read you will discover: Methods to ethically persuade on social media. (pg 105) How to identify and befriend the real influencers (they aren’t who you think they are). (pg 23) A concept buried deep in psychological research that holds the secret to purposeful social sharing. (pg 53) The two keys to creating true power with Internet marketing. (pg 65) How to craft your messages and build your networks. (pg 115) If you desire to use social media marketing to get your product, service, or small business out to the right audience you don’t need to understand what buttons to push, you need to understand and appeal to the people pushing them. This book will help. Don't delay, scroll up and buy your copy today!

How to Communicate Like a Buddhist


Cynthia Kane - 2016
    This is not by accident, as the Buddha taught what are called the four elements of right speech over 2,600 years ago.In this one-of-a-kind book, certified meditation and mindfulness instructor Cynthia Kane has taken the four elements of right speech and developed them into a modern practice based on mindful listening, mindful speech, and mindful silence.Beginning with an illuminating self-test to assess your current communication style, this book will take you through the author's own five-step practice that is designed to help you:Listen to yourself (your internal and external words)Listen to othersSpeak consciously, concisely, and clearlyRegard silence as a part of speechMeditate to enhance your communication skillsIf you have ever felt misheard, have trouble stating how you feel, or long to have more meaningful and genuine conversations, this book can help. The simple steps outlined in this book will have a huge effect on how you communicate with others and yourself.Communication is essential to being human, and when you become better at it, your personal truth becomes clearer, your relationships improve, and the result is that you experience more peace and harmony in your life.Fans of Thich Nhat Hanh will appreciate the simple, clear instructions for how to transform everyday communication into "right speech."This book will enhance the experience of those who love The Work of Byron Katie, the principles of the Non Violent Communication Movement, and even the popular Buddhist Bootcamp.This book is not intended to be a comprehensive study of Buddhist thought. Instead, it offers an entry point for modern people who are tired of getting into constant stress because of ineffective communication with family members, co-workers, superiors, and other important relationships.

The Medium and the Message: Understanding the Information World


Marshall McLuhan - 2016
    Tracing the descent of technological culture from the phonetic alphabet and resulting "lineal" thought that gave birth to Western civilization, McLuhan explores the contemporary transition from lineality to simultaneity, from text to image, from sequence to spontaneity, and from left to right hemisphere. Topics include: - the environment itself becoming information - the effects of products being written into their design - from 'jobs' to 'roles' in an electronic society - myth as a coping strategy of information overload and more.

Less Chaos. Less Noise.: Effective Communications for an Effective Church


Kem Meyer - 2016
    and the response isn't what you want. Is anyone even listening? What if you could cut through the chaos and the noise and find the direct route to your audience? It's easier than you think. Less Chaos. Less Noise. delivers proven "now" strategies for church communications--practical solutions and best-practice principles that build trust instead of walls. > Quickly establish your expertise through simple techniques you can use now for easy, early success. > Rise above the frenzy of overwhelming demands and learn a framework to lead internal change towards a clear and unified strategy. > Overcome communications barriers with your members and your community by learning to connect with hearts and minds, rather than broadcast to the masses. > Avoid the frustration of multi-audience messaging by identifying key channels for each group and learning the language that matters to them. > Bust through the limits of a small budget with free strategies that are essential for effective communications.

STUTTERING & ANXIETY SELF-CURES: BECOME THE BOSS OF YOUR MIND


Lee G. Lovett - 2016
    the 20-30 pages of the typical stuttering primers that proliferate on Kindle), AND it is the only stuttering-book that offers an INTERACTIVE FEATURE; that is, the author invites readers to email him, complete a questionnaire and participate in one-on-one or group-Skype sessions to discuss specific problems – AT NO CHARGE. Curing stutterers is the author’s charity. The author, long a practicing attorney, had a stuttering problem so severe that he could not say his own name in court. The problem had emerged in his teens and grown progressively worse into his mid-twenties, when he sought psychiatric help. Lacking the funds for more than six sessions, he began to create his own self-cures. His, book, SAC, is a living, breathing, very real human and sometimes painful story of the evolution of stuttering-SELF-cures and of the author’s 25-year speech-battle. By his late 30’s, the author gave some 50 speeches in one year, all without detectable stuttering. The author believes that typical stuttering-cases should be cured within several months to a year, by applying the self-cures that are meticulously and lucidly detailed in his book, which took him years to discover and perfect. Anyone who stutters, or who suffers speech-anxiety, should read this unique, semi-interactive book and say “Goodbye” to speech problems and “Welcome” to the joy and freedom of speech fluency. As far as the author knows, there has never been an offer like this, and it can’t last forever – as the author isn’t young, and he can’t handle an infinite number of cases, but he intends to accommodate every single stutterer that he possibly can. So, call his bluff. Read the book and email the author and launch your self-cure.

Speak To Sell: Persuade, Influence, And Establish Authority & Promote Your Products, Services, Practice, Business, or Cause


Dan Kennedy - 2016
    And, like a motivationalspeaker, you can also inspire an audience—to open their walletsand give you money!In Speak to Sell, marketing wizard Dan Kennedy shares his secrets,so, whether you are speaking to promote any local business, to bookappointments for a professional practice, or sell info-resources or otherproducts at the back of the room...to an audience of 10 or 10,000...youcan incite a stampede of response. When you step on the stage, youmust intend to turn each and every audience member into a customer.They shouldn’t even have a choice in the matter, and failure is not anoption. No matter the audience, Dan shows precisely how to do just that.This book will transform your approach to speaking, and by utilizing thevaluable techniques presented within, your authority, celebrity, and mostimportantly, profits, will skyrocket.Inside, you’ll discover how to:• sell one-to-many and multiply your earnings• boost your authority and celebrity• craft memorable and persuasive speeches that get results• control the speaking environment to ensure success• master the “Top Four Success Factors” of prosperous speakers• make big money by speaking-to-sellLearn from serial entrepreneur Dan Kennedy, and turn ordinary speakingengagements into moneymaking machines!

On Duties: A Guide To Conduct, Obligations, And Decision-Making


Quintus Curtius - 2016
     “On Duties” represents the pinnacle of Western moral philosophy. Not only is it an unmatched practical guide to conduct, it also serves as a profoundly ennobling vision of man. Acknowledged as a moral authority for many centuries, it was the second book (after the Gutenberg Bible) to be printed following the invention of the printing press. This new English translation by Quintus Curtius brings Cicero into the 21st century, while at the same time preserving the majesty and elegance of the original. Lucid, precise, and accessible for the modern reader, this complete and unabridged translation was designed specifically to meet the needs of the modern reader. It contains the following special features that are found nowhere else: 1. An innovative topical organizational scheme that permits easy location of subjects and terms 2. Detailed textual notes for unfamiliar terms and historical references 3. Detailed commentaries on the text 4. Complete subject and name index 5. Additional explanatory essays Quintus Curtius is an attorney, writer, and former Marine officer. He can be found at qcurtius.com.

Your Relationship GPA: Lessons from Harvard students on how to make time for what matters most


Stephen Turban - 2016
    What do they do to form friendships, find love, and platonically date their professors?In the book, you'll explore real stories of Harvard students. How does a boy who survived years of terminal cancer learn to form fast, authentic friendships in a single interaction? How does an astrophysics student convince Richard Branson to give her a trip to space? Why do some people seem to achieve extraordinary success in college, while equally qualified students fall short of their potential?The secret, as they discover, lies in relationships. This book is perfect for anyone in college, entering the workforce, or who enjoys a thrilling piece of cheesecake.

Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship


Adelyn Birch - 2016
    It gets to the heart of the matter of personal boundaries. Identifying and setting clear boundaries is vital for survivors and for anyone who wants to become more confident, improve relationships, and prevent victimization.When you create boundaries you take a stand for yourself and your life, and you communicate your worth to others in a real and practical way. This concise and powerful book is filled with practical wisdom and useful tips. It will walk you through the process of creating boundaries from start to finish.You get to decide how you want to live. Find your courage. Live in an authentic way. Protect yourself and what's important to you. Gain self respect and the respect of others. Boundaries will help you do all of these things."The BEST Manual on how to protect yourself from becoming a victim again - I know the subject too well... I am going to recommend it to the facilitators in the divorce support group I am attending.""This small book was full of tons of useful information. I don't usually write in my books, but my copy of Boundaries has underlining on almost every page. I was really glad I bought it.""Excellent Book for Individual, Group or Use in Therapy. A very well written book by an author who has a firm grip on abusers and their cunning ways. Excellent description on what boundaries are, why they are needed and what they can do for the holder of the newly created list of personal boundaries. This book if studied and put into practice could protect many from the narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths in all areas of one's life. It would lend exceptional protection in the area of dating. It would protect a person from repeating the selection of another abuser if a past relationship was abusive. Highly recommend!""Super Helpful: Make And Keep Your Boundaries.This is a really well written book. I found her tips for discovering, recording and keeping your personal boundaries extremely helpful.""My eyes have seen the light. How I wish I would have read this book years ago.""Worth your time! Well written, clear, and concise. So thankful I came across this quick, but powerful read. Having separated myself from an 8 year long destructive marriage, and reading many, many books on the topic, I so appreciate the wisdom I found in this writing. I feel empowered once more! Easily rated at 5 stars."

Tell Me So I Can Hear You: A Developmental Approach to Feedback for Educators


Eleanor Drago-Severson - 2016
    Drawing on constructive-developmental theory, the authors describe four stages of adult growth and development and explain how to differentiate feedback for colleagues with different “ways of knowing,” which include: • Instrumental knowers, who tend to see things in black and white (“Did I do it right or wrong?”) and may need to develop the capacity for reflection. • Socializing knowers, who are concerned with maintaining relationships (“What do you want me to do?”) and may need support developing their own ideas. • Self-authoring knowers, who have strong ideologies and values (“How does this fit with my goals and vision?”) and may need help with perspective taking. • Self-transformative knowers, who are able to examine issues from multiple points of view (“How can I understand this more deeply?”) and may need guidance in resolving tensions and contradictions. The authors show how leaders can provide feedback in ways that “meet people where they are” while expanding the developmental capacities educators bring to their work. Drago-Severson and Blum-DeStefano provide real-life examples with practical strategies for creating a safe space for feedback, finding the right words, and bridging feedback and action. Tell Me So I Can Hear You offers invaluable guidance to help educators support a culture of learning in classrooms, schools, and districts.

Feeling White: Whiteness, Emotionality, and Education


Cheryl E. Matias - 2016
    Instead of suppressing those feelings, dubbed "emotionalities of whiteness," they are, nonetheless, important to identify, understand, and deconstruct if one ever hopes to fully commit to racial equity.Feeling White: Whiteness, Emotionality, and Education delves deeper into these white emotionalities and other latent ones. It provides theoretical and psychoanalytic analyses to determine where these emotions stem from, how they operate, and how they perpetuate racial inequities in education and society. The author beautifully weaves in creative writing with theoretical work to artistically illustrate how these emotions operate while also engaging the reader in an emotional experience in and of itself, claiming one must feel to understand.This book does not rehash former race concepts; rather, it applies them in novel ways that get at the heart of humanity, thus revealing how feeling white ultimately impacts race relations. Without a proper investigation on these underlying emotions, that can both stifle or enhance one's commitment to racial justice in education and society, the field of education denies itself a proper emotional preparation so needed to engage in prolonged educative projects of racial and social justice. By digging deep to what impacts humanity most--our hearts--this book dares to expose one's daily experiences with race, thus individually challenging us all to self-investigate our own racialized emotionalities.Cheryl E. Matias, Ph.D., is an assistant professor in the School of Education and Human Development at the University of Colorado Denver. She is a mother-scholar of three children, including boy-girl twins.

Sell with a Story: How to Capture Attention, Build Trust, and Close the Sale


Paul Smith - 2016
    It explains products or services in ways that resonate; it connects people and creates momentum. Stories speak to the part of the brain where decisions are made.Paul Smith, author of the acclaimed Lead with a Story, shifts his best-selling formula to the sales arena. In Sell with a Story, he identifies the ingredients of the most effective sales stories and reveals how to:● Select the right story● Craft a compelling and memorable narrative● Incorporate challenge, conflict, and resolution● Use stories to introduce yourself, build rapport, address objections, add value, bring data to life, create a sense of urgency, and moreComplete with model stories, skill-building exercises, and enlightening examples from Microsoft, Costco, Xerox, Abercrombie & Fitch, Hewlett Packard, and other top companies, this powerful and practical guide gives you the tools you need to turn your experiences into stories that sell.

Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depended on It


Book Summary - 2016
    Author Chris Voss has years of experience, making him a true expert in the art of negotiation. Using what he has learnt over the years and in numerous life or death situations, he has compiled a book around what he teaches his own students. One might wonder how skills developed from negotiating with kidnappers can be applied in real life, but he pulls it off, making it relevant to all. Voss takes you through the negotiation process step-by-step and then explains how to put all you have learnt together to become a master negotiator. Not only does he share his techniques, Voss gives you tips on how to best use these skills in real life. Whether you are looking to improve your communication skills for business or personal reasons, this book is for you. Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn...The New RulesBe A MirrorDon't Feel Their Pain, Label ItBeware "YES" - Master "NO"Trigger The Two Words That Immediately Transform Any NegotiationBend Their RealityCreate The Illusion of ControlGuarantee ExecutionBargain HardFind The Black SwanThe Book At A GlanceFinal ThoughtsNow What?Scroll Up and Click on "buy now with 1-Click" to Download Your Copy Right Now ****** Tags: never split the difference, chris voss, negotiation, negotiating, business books, how to negotiate, business communication

Effective Data Visualization: The Right Chart for the Right Data


Stephanie D.H. Evergreen - 2016
    H. Evergreen, Effective Data Visualization shows readers how to create Excel charts and graphs that best communicate data findings. This comprehensive how-to guide functions as a set of blueprints--supported by research and the author's extensive experience with clients in industries all over the world--for conveying data in an impactful way. Delivered in Evergreen's humorous and approachable style, the book covers the spectrum of graph types available beyond the default options, how to determine which one most appropriately fits specific data stories, and easy steps for making the chosen graph in Excel.

The Chameleon: Life-Changing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has a Personality or Knows Someone Who Does


Merrick Rosenberg - 2016
    Guided by an all-knowing chameleon, the characters gain meaningful insights into understand themselves and others. The Introduction fable provides an overview of the four DISC styles. The next 20 fables follow the birds through a one-year period with five fables set in each season. Each of these fables includes a Chameleon Wisdom section that expands on the fable's lessons and provides practical applications and scenarios for living the story's morale in one's life. These deeper insights include examples of how to employ the DISC styles to increase effectiveness at work, deepen personal relationships, parent with compassion, and generally, live a more fulfilling life. The Chameleon teaches skills for understanding others, capitalizing on personal strengths, cultivating joy, and achieving success. The Epilogue pulls together the insights about the four DISC styles and sets the stage for more stories about the beloved characters.

Can I Kiss You?


Mike Domitrz - 2016
    Mike Domitrz is one of the leading experts for transforming our sexual culture to one being built on consent and respect. For over two decades, educators, military, families, colleges and individuals of all have sought out Mike and his impactful programs and speaking engagements. Everyone; people of all ages, genders, sexual orientations and socioeconomic backgrounds, need to hear the challenging and life-changing message in his just released book, Can I Kiss You?Can I Kiss You? is a fun, helpful journey revealing the faults of body language, the joys of talking, the serious impact of wrongful behaviors, how to EXPECT RESPECT from your partners throughout all facets of a relationship, how to help your family and friends, and much more! Best of all, you are going to gain realistic skills you will have fun using in your life and sharing with those you love (both children and adults).This insightful book full of candid advice, real-life scenarios, and interactive exercises is revolutionizing each person’s approach to dating & building respect – all while helping address the reality of sexual assault in today’s culture, including how to intervene to help others.While most people simply “make their move” on a date, Mike Domitrz reveals why asking first makes all the difference.

Speak for Impact: Write a Speech That's Your Next Best-Selling Product


Michelle Mazur - 2016
    While skills help you create an awesome presentation, they do not help you figure out how to earn money and grow your business with speaking. To do that you need a strategy for your speaking. It’s time to think about your speech differently. Earning money and consistently landing speaking gigs is not just about being a speaker who is vulnerable, entertaining, and helpful on stage. Instead, it's about being a speaker who treats their speaking like a business. Your speech is your next best-selling product. This book shows you how to create, market, and sell your speech as a product so that your message gets into the hands of those who need it most, your speech is no-brainer for meeting planners and conference organizers to say yes to, and you’ve got a way to get paid even if you’re speaking for free. By following the strategy outlined in this book you’ll find: - it's easier to pitch yourself for speaking opportunities - you can charge more for your speech - speaking gigs will start finding their way to YOU instead of you always hustling for them Let's build your next best-selling product!

Social Architecture: Building On-line Communities


Pieter Hintjens - 2016
    It covers the theory of Social Architecture, and the tools you need to build a community. It explains the ZeroMQ community in detail, including its collaboration process (C4). This is a powerful book for anyone building an Open Source community, or an on-line community in other areas.

Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You


David W. Richardson Jr. - 2016
    Transparent reveals what assumptions we make, how they control us, and how they are all inherently religious. Even atheists are religious at the level of their assumptions. Some assumptions are true and most are not. How can you tell without being an intellectual? Transparent introduces the Transparent App, an innovative and creative tool that helps people quickly see through the messages they encounter daily in the things they read, watch, and hear using the power of assumptions. The Transparent App is simple enough for a student to use, but powerful enough for adults to find God and engage with Him in their areas of interest, expertise, and leadership. How can someone bring God with them to work or school? How does God give us knowledge and guidance in the things that matter in real life? At the level of assumptions God is everywhere. Transparent is not just a theoretical theological exercise for intellectuals. It "translates" the complex ideologies of the intellectuals into everyday language for everyday people. Written more like an adventure than a textbook, Transparent is a refreshing departure from the usual books about apologetics, theology, and culture. Students, parents, pastors, and professionals will all love Transparent.

Shoot Like Scorsese: The Visual Secrets of Shock, Elegance, and Extreme Character


Christopher Kenworthy - 2016
    This book looks at Scorsese s key techniques, showing how he uses space, framing, and a strong sense of direction, to en-sure that your films are brimming with tension, shock, and emotion."

How to Text a Girl: A Girls Chase Guide (Girls Chase Guides Book 1)


Chase Amante - 2016
    If you're tired of "spin your wheels" texting advice, buy this book. Its approach draws from 18 cutting edge scientific studies on texting… And it's written by the founder of the highest traffic men's dating advice website on the Internet, GirlsChase.com. What you will learn inside: Who the 4 kinds of texters are (plus: which one YOU are) - pg. 2 How to text a girl you like (use the powerful JGIG texting system) - pg.10 Exactly what to text girls: what topics to text and which to AVOID - pg. 62 The 4 BIG reasons most guys struggle to turn phone numbers into dates (these are so easy to correct) - pg. 74 How to tell if a girl likes you over text… Do this ONE thing, and you will know, with certainty, if she like you or not - pg. 67 How to "break the ice" with a girl over text in a way that kills awkwardness and gets her to text you - pg. 52 How to get a girl to LIKE you over text (hint: no clueless questions or long-winded text jousts!) - pg. 15 What to do when a girl doesn't text back - apply these 2 dos and 2 don'ts, and you'll get her texting today, 4 times out of 5 - pg. 72 How to flirt with a girl over text and make her EXCITED to meet up with you - you'll learn why "less" is "more", and just how much to actually do - pg. 31 An easy way to make sure girls almost never cancel the dates you plan with them over text. To do this, you'll use a simple, powerful trick called the "pre-meeting text" - pg. 68 What to do if a girl flakes on you (the good news: handle this well, and her attraction for you goes through the ROOF) - pg. 85 How to make a phone call to a girl that "resets" her interest in you (this works like magic at times when nothing else does) - pg. 92 The single most EFFECTIVE way to resume texting a girl you haven't talked to in weeks or months - pg. 112 How to start a conversation with a girl over text message; to do this right, you MUST use one of the two (2) patented "text objectives" - pg. 28 An example text conversation, start to finish, that ties EVERYTHING in the book together (this lets you see how all the pieces work, end to end) - pg. 134 … plus tons more examples, scientific study findings, and rules to texting women most men NEVER unearth… no matter how many texts they send. As a FREE bonus, only for book buyers, you'll receive the GC URL to a 93-minute bonus podcast on texting with girls.

Don't Hire a Software Developer Until You Read this Book: The handbook for tech startups & entrepreneurs (from idea, to build, to product launch and everything in between.)


K.N. Kukoyi - 2016
    Discover how to: • Avoid the pitfalls and perils of software development. • Avoid wasting time and money, and making "rookie mistakes" when starting your tech business. • Interview and hire a software developer. • Manage the software development process like a pro! This book will benefit you if: • You’re considering different ways to start, or grow a business and you’d like to know how to get a commercial software product built from scratch. • You want to know how to get a mobile app built and launched in the Google Play or Apple App Stores. • You want to create a web application such as a SaaS, (Software as a Service product) to serve customers online. • You’re a tech entrepreneur looking for tools and methods to help you manage your software projects more efficiently, with less issues, less delays, less risk and less waste! Use the tips, tools, links, checklists, scripts and templates packed into this full-length "handbook for creating software", which will take you from your initial idea, right through to the launch of your software, and beyond. Some of the topics covered include market research, product development and prototyping, user testing, tech fundamentals, product pricing and revenue generation, managing your developer(s) and understanding how to improve productivity, basic sales and marketing, product testing, management, launching your product and taking care of your customers after you launch and more! When starting a new business there can be a lot to consider. For your convenience, this book covers a wide range of topics so you can start off by reading this one book to give you a grounding in what you need to know, and do, rather than loading up with a bus load of books on different subjects! The Introduction provided at the start of the book will help you get your bearings and explains the key topics covered in each chapter and what you can expect as you progress through the book. It will also explain how to access your free resources. Don't go it alone - and don't hire a software developer until you read this book! Are you ready? Here's to your success!

Unfuck Your Friendships: Using Science to Make and Maintain the Most Important Relationships of Your Life


Faith G. Harper - 2016
    In reality, friendship is the key to our mental and physical health, happiness, and social cohesion. Dr. Faith Harper, therapist and bestselling author of Unfuck Your Intimacy and Unfuck Your Boundaries tackles this vital type of relationship, offering insight into how to choose and make friends, sustaining and strengthening your friendships, friend group dynamics, friend breakups, setting excellent friendship boundaries, handling changing friendships, and managing all the different kinds of relationships we encounter in our lives.

From Talk Trouble to Redemptive Communication: Solving communication problems


Rick Thomas - 2016
    While they may not be talking well to each other, the problem is much deeper than they realize. Communication problems begin in the heart of the person while reaching into the community of the Trinity. James asked, “What causes quarrels and conflicts” and then answered his own question in a threefold manner by saying our passions, desires, and coveting ways are the source of our communication problems. (See James 4:1-2) But communication is more than a heart problem; it is a divine problem. The Trinity is the original communicating community, and we are made in Their image (Genesis 1:26-27). Though our hearts are broken and stand in need of a biblical rewire, that can only happen when we align our hearts to the divine--the original community. This eBooklet will walk you through how to do this. The first chapter will start where all good communication begins: with God. The second chapter will motivate you to branch out by exporting what you have learned to your closest friends. Finally, in the third chapter, you will have the opportunity to expand your communicative prowess to your greater group of friends. The goal is that you will be able to build true community with God, with yourself, with your closest friends, and to your extended group of friends. Who knows...maybe the borders of redemptive communication will not stop there. The most effective way you can use this book is to read slowly, reflectively, and prayerfully while adding journaling and daily practice to your list of habits. I would not recommend reading just to be reading. At the end of each chapter, I have “call to action” opportunities specifically designed to challenge you to work this content into your soul. “Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.” - Philippians 2:12-13 It would be best if you had a friend, spouse, or mentor that you could immediately share this content with. Finally, if you want to become a more effective communicator then start communicating more effectively today. Let the “call to action” opportunities work for you. Too often books are read and then shelved. I would not recommend you do that with this book. Your goal is not to notch your “book belt” as though you are on a quest to read books for the sake of reading books. Make your aim to be changed. That may mean you read this eBooklet several times. Maybe it becomes the source material for your small group meetings. Perhaps you’ll want to teach a class using this content or maybe preach a sermon series. I appeal to you to not let the words in this eBooklet rest. Use them often. Share them with your friends. I promise that if you can practically grasp this content, which will be measured by how well you talk to those who are closest to you, then your life and relationships will change. That is my prayer for you and your friends. Rick “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” - Ephesians 4:29

Stop Being Lonely: Three Simple Steps to Developing Close Friendships and Deep Relationships


Kira Asatryan - 2016
    It can also happen when we are with people. Online friends, followers, or “likers” don’t necessarily add up to much when you crave fulfilling interaction, and satisfying, long-term relationships are not a mystery to be left up to chance (or technology). The good news is that, according to relationship coach Kira Asatryan, loneliness has a reliable antidote: the feeling of closeness. We can and should cultivate closeness in our relationships using the steps outlined in this book: knowing, caring, and mastering closeness.Whether with romantic partners, friends, family members, or business colleagues, these techniques will help you establish true closeness with others. The simple and straightforward actions Asatryan presents in this wonderfully practical book will guide you toward better relationships and less loneliness in all social contexts.

Ways of the Word: Learning to Preach for Your Time and Place


Sally A. Brown - 2016
    The changing realities of church and theological education, the diversity of our classrooms, and our increasingly complex community contexts leave us in search of tools to help train a rising generation of preachers for a future whose contours are far from clear. The questions are immense: How to support preachers in contexts that are diverse religiously, culturally, and ethnically, both inside and outside the church? How to help students take varied contexts seriously as they are formed as leaders?In Ways of the Word, a dynamic team of master preachers brings much-needed help. Different in race, gender, age, and tradition, both Sally A. Brown and Luke A. Powery speak with one voice their belief that preaching is an Spirit-empowered event: an embodied, vocalized, actively received, here-and-now witness to the ongoing work of God in the world.They aspire to help students and preachers alike to reflect on a journey of learning by doing. They aim to help preachers to become more attuned to the Spirit, more adept in preaching's component skills, and more self-aware about all that is at stake in proclaiming the redemptive work of God in specific contexts.

Understand to Be Understood: By Using the Process Communication Model


Gérard Collignon - 2016
    The theorist will have ample opportunity to test his or her current knowledge against this model, to find answers to questions and to stimulate more thinking. The person who needs to see and understand the value of committing time to learn something new will not be disappointed. You will certainly find a rich source of material that will add value when applied in the workplace. The person who likes to play with theory, tossing it around, testing it on friends and even applying it at work, will like this book, as there will be stimulation enough to satisfy. Those who care about people and want to know how to further improve on the quality of their relationships will love this book. People who need to grasp the nettle of tricky situations and apply what they know to get results quickly that make positive impact on their bottom line will grasp the power of this tool. Those who need to take time to turn things over and examine them by reflecting upon the learning points and seeing how to use the tools will find plenty to stimulate their imaginations. This book about coaching using PCM is overflowing with the complexity and at the same time the ordinariness of people in relationships.This model can help you develop skills in four areas:self-knowledge and self-awareness self-management knowledge and awareness of others relationship managementHappy Coaching!

The Gift of Stuttering: Confronting Life's Challenges: A Personal Journey


Moe Mernick - 2016
    In The Gift of Stuttering, we meet Moe Mernick as he describes his journey facing the challenges presented to him in life. Moe grew up with a debilitating stutter and seemingly unanswerable questions about G-d; he found everyday life to be a painful and lonely experience. After years of suffering, though, he discovered an exceptional life of meaning and purpose and in doing so, turned the tables on his speech impediment. The Gift of Stuttering is a remarkable story of one man's journey from despair to hope, from anger at G-d to spiritual fulfillment, from being a rebellious teenager to becoming a motivational speaker and entrepreneur. It's a story of finding meaning within life's challenges and of transforming the heaviest burdens into the greatest gifts.

Long Past Slavery: Representing Race in the Federal Writers' Project


Catherine A Stewart - 2016
    These narratives are now widely used as a source to understand the lived experience of those who made the transition from slavery to freedom. But in this examination of the project and its legacy, Catherine A. Stewart shows it was the product of competing visions of the past, as ex-slaves' memories of bondage, emancipation, and life as freedpeople were used to craft arguments for and against full inclusion of African Americans in society. Stewart demonstrates how project administrators, such as the folklorist John Lomax; white and black interviewers, including Zora Neale Hurston; and the ex-slaves themselves fought to shape understandings of black identity. She reveals that some influential project employees were also members of the United Daughters of the Confederacy, intent on memorializing the Old South. Stewart places ex-slaves at the center of debates over black citizenship to illuminate African Americans' struggle to redefine their past as well as their future in the face of formidable opposition.By shedding new light on a critically important episode in the history of race, remembrance, and the legacy of slavery in the United States, Stewart compels readers to rethink a prominent archive used to construct that history.

Democracy Against Domination


K Sabeel Rahman - 2016
    In its aftermath, the financial crisis pushed to the forefront fundamental moral and institutional questions about how we govern the modern economy. What are the values that economic policy ought to prioritize? What institutions do we trust to govern complex economic dynamics? Much of popular and academic debate revolves around two competing approaches to these fundamental questions: laissez-faire defenses of self-correcting and welfare-enhancing markets on the one hand, and managerialist turns to the role of insulated, expert regulation in mitigating risks and promoting growth on the other. In Democracy Against Domination, K. Sabeel Rahman offers an alternative vision for how we should govern the modern economy in a democratic society.Drawing on a rich tradition of economic reform rooted in the thought and reform politics of early twentieth century progressives like John Dewey and Louis Brandeis, Rahman argues that the fundamental moral challenge of economic governance today is two-fold: first, to counteract the threats of economic domination whether in the form of corporate power or inequitable markets; and second, to do so by expanding the capacity of citizens themselves to exercise real political power in economic policymaking. This normative framework in turn suggests a very different way of understanding and addressing major economic governance issues of the post-crisis era, from the challenge of too-big-to-fail financial firms, to the dangers of regulatory capture and regulatory reform.Synthesizing a range of insights from history to political theory to public policy, Democracy Against Domination offers an exciting reinterpretation of progressive economic thought; a fresh normative approach to democratic theory; and an urgent hope for realizing a more equitable and democratically accountable economy through practical reforms in our policies and regulatory institutions.

Mrs Dog


Janeen Brian - 2016
    Dog is a farm dog at the end of her working life. She spends her days shadowing the steps of Tall-One — the farmer. When the pair discover an abandoned lamb one day, Mrs. Dog adopts the stray and the lamb becomes her surrogate pup, learning the ways of dogs and life on the farm. Until one day Mrs. Dog goes missing. And that’s when everything changes…This is a story about change, courage and determination. It’s the story about an old farm dog who rescues a lamb, and the lamb who rescues her right back.

Truly Global: The Theory and Practice of Bringing Your Company to International Markets


Anna N Schlegel - 2016
    Every company that seeks to grow beyond its national boundaries needs a globalization team to help develop, translate, adapt, and promote products to international markets. This team is vital to ensuring that customers receive product information and support in their own language in a personalized and seamless way. From a company’s website, to product interfaces and documentation, to telephone and online support, providing this culturally specific experience is essential to building a brand across international borders with a solid enterprise approach. Ideal for global corporate leaders, board members, employees, and students, Truly Global provides an insider’s look at how large companies move into international markets to successfully deliver their product to customers across different cultures and languages. It covers everything you need to know, to globalize your company from start to finish, including who to recruit as members of a globalization team, how to integrate globalization in each department, and how to use the team’s research to build your brand’s presence in new markets. This book will help your company succeed in an increasingly competitive global economy, and lay the foundation for your growth from national company to international household brand.

Donald Duck: Timeless Tales, Volume 1


Romano Scarpa - 2016
    including great works by Romano Scarpa, Giorgio Cavazzano, Daan Jippes--and the first-ever US publication of The Diabolical Duck Avenger, Donald's classic 1960s debut as a super-anti-hero! With special extras for true Disney Comics aficionados, this Donald compendium provides hours of history and excitement.

Designing a UX Portfolio: A Practical Guide for Designers, Researchers, Content Strategists, and Developers


Ian Fenn - 2016
    If you're like many UX designers, however, you probably don't have a portfolio--or if you do, it might not do your work justice. This practical guide not only shows you how to create an effective UX portfolio, but also shows you how to use it in an interview. Employers and recruiters will be able to use this book to improve their hiring processes.If you want to land a truly rewarding gig, designing a good UX portfolio is a critical first step.Learn how to sell yourself effectively using a UX portfolioDeal with issues such as a lack of work experience, non-disclosure agreements, and problem projectsUse UX portfolios to eliminate misunderstanding over what UX design is and isn'tIdentify the best talent for interview by learning how to review UX portfolios

Defriending: Navigating the Friendship Breakup


Faith G. Harper - 2016
    Faith walks you through friend break-ups. First off, figuring out if you can save the friendship (and if you want to), and giving that a try. Second off, all the ways people break up with friends, rated on a scale of relative healthfulness, with some scripts for having those hard conversations. Finally, tips for recovering from your friend break-up, whether you're the breaker-upper, or the break-upee. Sad to say that this is a useful skill set for everyone of every age.

How to Make Your Point Without PowerPoint: 50 Ways to Present Effectively


Douglas Kruger - 2016
    He offers 50 practical suggestions to enhance your presentation skills – including the kinds of formats you can use, different methods of delivery and some alternative visuals – so you and your team can trade in the slides and get brainstorming.This book proves that it is possible to do an excellent job, even a superior one, without slides, by learning to truly engage and persuade. In this way, you will stand out every time and, as the presenter, have an entertaining time of it!

Writers' Rights: Freelance Journalism in a Digital Age


Nicole S. Cohen - 2016
    Although commentary frequently lauds freelancers as ideal workers for the information age – adaptable, multi-skilled, and entrepreneurial – Nicole Cohen argues that freelance media work is increasingly precarious, marked by declining incomes, loss of control over one’s work, intense workloads, long hours, and limited access to labour and social protections. Writers’ Rights provides context for freelancers’ struggles and identifies the points of contention between journalists and big business. Through interviews and a survey of freelancers, Cohen highlights the paradoxes of freelancing, which can be simultaneously precarious and satisfying, risky and rewarding. She documents the transformation of freelancing from a way for journalists to resist salaried labour in pursuit of autonomy into a strategy for media firms to intensify exploitation of freelance writers’ labour power, and presents case studies of freelancers’ efforts to collectively transform their conditions. A groundbreaking and timely intervention into debates about the future of journalism, organizing precariously employed workers, and the transformation of media work in a digital age, Writers’ Rights makes clear what is at stake for journalism’s democratic role when the costs and risks of its production are offloaded onto individuals.

His Porn, Her Pain: Confronting America's PornPanic with Honest Talk about Sex


Marty Klein - 2016
    Marty Klein, as this is exactly what took place 15 years ago.Written by an award-winning author and veteran sex therapist, this practical, innovative, and often passionate book addresses the explosion of pornography use, advises couples on defusing conflict about it, guides parents in helping their kids deal with it, advises people concerned about their use of it, and shows how honest talk about sex can resolve America's "porn panic."So what did happen when Internet porn flooded America? The rates of sexual assault, divorce, and child molestation declined. And yet various religious groups, politicians, some feminists, anti-trafficking activists, and many marriage counselors talk unceasingly about the damage porn viewing is doing to our society. They have created a "PornPanic" that has demonized the recreation of some 60 million Americans.Americans are always ready for new reasons to feel guilty and ashamed of their sexuality, and Internet porn is the newest reason. Wives and girlfriends worry that they can't compete with it; teens use it as a misguided substitute for sex education, often disturbed by intense adults-only imagery; and psychologically vulnerable people get caught up in hours of compulsive porn surfing every night, feeling isolated and inadequate as a result.Fortunately for his many readers, however, using clear reasoning, clinical expertise, and political savvy, Klein shows that for most people, porn is not the real problem. With the experience gained from 34 years of doing therapy--that's 35,000 sessions--Klein asks a simple but profound question: when we talk about porn, what are we really talking about?This book eases readers' minds as Klein addresses common concerns and debunks common myths while identifying what we should be concerned about. Most importantly, the author explains how we can heal America's obsession with porn by engaging in honest talk about sex--something he knows is neither simple nor easy. The text includes sample conversations to help adults talk to each other about pornography, and suggestions for parents on how to talk to their kids about porn--healthy discussions to help their kids develop "Porn Literacy." This book offers honest, thorough, expert information desperately needed by a nation of people driven to panic about pornography.

The Secrets of Enduring Love: How to make relationships last


Meg-John Barker - 2016
    The reader will be taken on a journey through different ways of doing relationships, focusing on the key themes which came out of the research: everyday acts of kindness and appreciation; the importance of home; communication and conflict management; sex and intimacy; incorporating others into the relationship (children, pets, friends, hobbies); and telling your own love story. One of the key messages from the research is that different things work for different people, and at different times in the relationship. For this reason the book focuses on the differnt practices that we might bring into our own relationships, helping us to recognise the small things which we may be already doing but which ordinarily go by unnoticed, and offering a helping hand to find out what works best for us.

Unlocking the Magic of Facilitation: 11 Key Concepts You Didn't Know You Didn't Know


Sam Killermann - 2016
    As an educator and facilitator, this book gives me a framework to understand my own facilitation style, and ways that I can continue to improve."""- Ava Holliday, Founding Partner of the Avarna Group"Have you ever been in a training and marveled at how quickly the time flew by? Genuinely enjoyed a meeting you were expecting to dread? Learned something powerful about a topic you thought wouldn't engage you? Experienced an intimate, vulnerable, transformative moment with a group of total strangers?Then you've witnessed the magic of facilitation.Like all magic tricks though they seem to defy reason when you're spectating for the first time once the secrets of facilitation are unveiled to you, you'll look back with a bland obviousness. "Of course that's how it's done."In this book, co-authors and social justice facilitators Sam Killermann and Meg Bolger teach you how to perform the favorite tricks they keep up their sleeve. It's the learning they've accumulated from thousands of hours of facilitating, debriefing, challenging, and failing; it's the lessons from their mentors, channeled through their experience; it's the magician's secrets, revealed to the public, because it's about time folks have the privilege of looking behind the curtain of facilitation and thinking of course that's how it's done.

Critical Theory of Communication: New Readings of Lukács, Adorno, Marcuse, Honneth and Habermas in the Age of the Internet


Christian Fuchs - 2016
    One of the world's leading theorists of digital media Professor Christian Fuchs explores how the thought of some of the Frankfurt School's key thinkers can be deployed for critically understanding media in the age of the Internet. Five essays that form the heart of this book review aspects of the works of Georg LukAcs, Theodor W. Adorno, Herbert Marcuse, Axel Honneth and Jürgen Habermas and apply them as elements of a critical theory of communication's foundations. The approach taken starts from Georg LukAcs Ontology of Social Being, draws on the work of the Frankfurt School thinkers, and sets them into dialogue with the Cultural Materialism of Raymond Williams.Critical Theory of Communication offers a vital set of new insights on how communication operates in the age of information, digital media and social media, arguing that we need to transcend the communication theory of Habermas by establishing a dialectical and cultural-materialist critical theory of communication.

Key Takeaways & Analysis of Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzer


Instaread Summaries - 2016
    The authors, organizational performance researchers, set out to learn about what they call “crucial moments”: times when people’s actions disproportionately affect their organizations, their relationships, and their lives. Yet, in the course of studying what they call “influencers”—a term for individuals who are known by their peers as effective and possessing an innate authority regardless of the position they hold—for 20 years of research that involved more than 100,000 people, the authors learned that the crucial moments could be linked to crucial conversations. The three defining characteristics that make a conversation crucial are a high-stakes topic of discussion, differing opinions about the topic, and high emotions about the topic…  PLEASE NOTE: This is key takeaways and analysis of the book and NOT the original book.   Inside this Instaread of Crucial Conversations: ·      Overview of the book·      Important People·      Key Takeaways·      Analysis of Key Takeaways  About the Author With Instaread, you can get the key takeaways and analysis of a book in 15 minutes. We read every chapter, identify the key takeaways and analyze them for your convenience.

The Battered Woman Syndrome, Fourth Edition


Lenore E a Walker - 2016
    Describing a condition that is the basis for the battered woman defense--cited in cases of physically and psychologically abused women who have killed their abusers--it continues to be used as a defense to explain premeditated assault or murder. Completely updated, the fourth edition reflects the significant changes in the field since the book was last published, incorporating Affordable Care Act (ACA) guidelines on health care and domestic violence and data from the Adverse Childhood Experiences Study. It examines new research regarding battered women and cross-cultural and cross-national issues, and includes several new chapters addressing issues ranging from murder--suicide in domestic violence cases to proposed legislation and congressional resolutions.The fourth edition provides new findings worldwide that reinforce the cycle theory of violence. It reflects new research on traumatic responses, and addresses trauma-informed and trauma-specific psychotherapy, interventions with youth in juvenile detention centers, information from government task forces regarding children exposed to violence and juvenile justice, and new findings regarding the application of psychology to the legal system. Entirely new to the fourth edition is a section about reforming family court and divorce presumptions. This is crucial reading for nearly all health and mental health workers who may be called upon to ask clients about experiences of domestic violence and must respond knowledgeably and effectively.New to the Fourth Edition: Fully revised and updatedIncorporates ACA guidelines on health care and domestic violenceIncludes data from the Adverse Childhood Experiences StudyAddresses findings regarding battered women and cross-cultural and cross-national issuesli>New chapter on murder--suicide in domestic violence cases New chapter on trauma treatment for victims of intimate partner violence (IPV) New chapter on human trafficking and sexual exploitation of children New chapter on false confessions of battered women

The Conversation Code: How to Upgrade Your Social Skills and Your Life


Gregory Peart - 2016
    Why are they so confident? How do they always have something interesting to say? How do they initiate conversations so easily? The most comprehensive conversation study of its kind, spanning over 15 years and over 17,500 conversations, is now available as a practical guide to improving your conversation skills. This engaging book teaches the habits of the best conversationalists, including invaluable actionable techniques for surviving and thriving in any common social situation. It’s no secret how vital social skills are to life success. By learning the skills to effortlessly navigate any social interaction, the rewards are limitless. Learn how to: Initiate and connect with anyone Be more confident and likeable Improve your conversational sixth sense Offer fascinating observations and opinions Ask the best questions Become an exceptional listener Maintain any conversation

16 Communication Secrets


Kim Zoller - 2016
    Learn how to: • Manage perceptions• Manage your online and offline networking• Adapt to different communication styles• Set yourself apart from your competitorsThe book also includes real-life stories on how conduct can make or break your career. Whether you are a full-time employee or a recent college graduate, 16 Communication Secrets will prepare you to correctly handle a wide variety of business situations.Kim Zoller is the president and founder of Image Dynamics. She works with Fortune 500 C-suite executives and has appeared on and in a plethora of national media including CNN, CNBC, The New York Times and Forbes. Kerry Preston is a recognized expert, speaker and facilitator in the areas of leadership, communication, strategic planning and time management. She has spent over two decades collaborating with companies and their employees, to improve their performance.

Effective HR Communication: A Framework for Communicating HR Programmes with Impact


Debra Corey - 2016
    Deborah Corey tackles new areas that are transforming communications campaigns including how to use and embrace technology as a medium for effective communication, how to understand the needs of target audiences in multi-generational and multi-cultural workplaces, and how to communicate in a global context. In addition, she presents case studies to practically spell what works and what does not work.

Results Based Facilitation: Book One - Foundation Skills - 2nd Edition: Moving from talk to action


Jolie Bain Pillsbury - 2016
    RBF has proven time and again to produce conversations and meetings that prompt direct action. There is no magic to getting unstuck from meeting paralysis - except the practical magic of applying learnable skills to move people off Square One and into the arena of action to achieve results. Thanks to the experimentation, application, and discipline of the many RBF thought and practice partners, RBF: Book One - Foundation Skills can help you in three ways to hold more productive meetings. There has rarely in my work life been a course or workshop that has impacted my day-to-day work as much as the RBF Training. There is something very powerful and transformative about attending a training with the people you work with and then having the organization embrace it. - Participant, 2013 RBF Workshop. First, RBF is a specific, hands-on method that enables people both to understand what they need to do and why they need to do it, and to practice on a daily basis the skills for getting different and better results in their meetings and conversations. For example, most books on leadership exhort people to be better listeners; rarely, however, do you see leaders and managers who actually practice listening well. There is thus a gap between exhortation and realization. Foundation Skills goes beyond exhortation to provide the specific preparation steps, practice steps, and relapse strategies to achieve better listening. Second, RBF is designed to empower people to get concrete, actionable results anywhere, any time. The method is useful in one-on-one conversations, small groups, and large groups whether you are a meeting participant, meeting convener, or meeting facilitator. Third, RBF is an open architecture that complements and strengthens any other method a leader, manager, consultant, facilitator, or supervisor already uses. It specifically helps people map what they already know and do, empowering them to use what they know and do better - for better results more consistently and more frequently. The 2nd Edition has been updated and reformatted for improved reading.

Narratives of Crisis: Telling Stories of Ruin and Renewal


Matthew W. Seeger - 2016
    Yet, as a society, we rarely stop to appreciate the narratives that follow a crisis and their tremendous impact.This book examines the fundamental role that narratives play in catastrophic events. A crisis creates a communication vacuum, which is then populated by the stories of those who were directly affected, as well as crisis managers, journalists, and onlookers. These stories become fundamental to how we understand a disaster, determine what should be done about it, and carry forward our lessons learned.Matthew W. Seeger and Timothy L. Sellnow outline a typology of crisis narratives: accounts of blame, stories of renewal, victim narratives, heroic tales, and memorials. Using cases to illustrate each type, they show how competing accounts battle for dominance in the public sphere, advancing specific organizational, social, and political changes. Narratives of Crisis improves our understanding of how consensus forms in the aftermath of a disaster, providing a new lens for comprehending events in our past and shaping what comes from those in our future.

Standing Up, Speaking Out: Stand-Up Comedy and the Rhetoric of Social Change


Matthew R. Meier - 2016
    Even though comedy and satire have been addressed by rhetorical scholarship in recent decades, little attention has been paid to stand-up. This collection is an attempt to further cultivate the growing conversation about stand-up comedy from the perspective of the rhetorical tradition. It brings together literatures from rhetorical, cultural, and humor studies to provide a unique exploration of stand-up comedy that both argues on behalf of the form's capacity for social change and attempts to draw attention to a series of otherwise unrecognized rhetors who have made significant contributions to public culture through comedy.