Best of
Communication

1993

The Leader In You: How to Win Friends, Influence People and Succeed in a Changing World


Dale Carnegie - 1993
    Levine and Michael A. Crom apply the famed organization’s time-tested human relations principles to demonstrate how anyone, regardless of his or her job, can harness creativity and enthusiasm to work more productively.With insights from leading figures in the corporate, entertainment, sports, academic, and political arenas—and encompassing interviews and advice from such eminent authorities as Lee Iacocca and Margaret Thatcher—this comprehensive, step-by-step guide includes strategies to help you: identify your leadership strengths; achieve your goals and increase your self-confidence; eliminate an “us vs. them” mentality; become a team player and strengthen cooperation among associates; balance work and leisure; control your worries and energize your life; and much more!The most important investment you will ever make is in yourself—once you discover the key that unlocks The Leader In You.

Therapeutic Communication: Knowing What to Say When


Paul L. Wachtel - 1993
    Through vivid clinical illustrations, the book illuminates why some communications in therapy are particularly effective, while others addressing essentially the very same content may actually be countertherapeutic. Wachtel's powerful integrative theory also provides new insights into how psychological disorder evolves, how it is maintained, and how psychotherapy contributes to change.

Bringing Out the Best in People


Aubrey C. Daniels - 1993
    When an employer needs to know how to gain maximum performance from employees, renowned behavioral psychologist--Aubrey Daniels is the man to consult. What has made Daniels the man with the answers? His ability to apply scientifically based behavioral stimuli to the workplace while making it fun at the same time. Now Daniels updates his ground-breaking book with the latest and best motivational methods, perfected at such companies as Xerox, 3M, and Kodak. All-new material shows how to: create effective recognition and rewards systems in line with today's employees want; Stimulate innovations and creativity in new and exciting ways; overcome problems associated with poorly educated workers; motivate young employees from the minute they join the workforce.

Well Said: Pronunciation for Clear Communication


Linda Grant - 1993
    Offering a lively and communicative approach for increasing pronunciation and speaking skills, Well Said Intro provides beginning to mid-intermediate students with the pronunciation and speaking tools they need to communicate in social, academic, and professional settings.

The Dance of Deception: A Guide to Authenticity and Truth-Telling in Women's Relationships


Harriet Lerner - 1993
    "Well, I don't do deception" was a common resonse.We all "do deception", often with the intention to protect ourselves and the relationships we depend on. The Dance of Deceptionunravels the ways (and whys) that women show the false and hide the real -- even to our own selves. We see how relationships are affected by lying and faking, by silence and pretending and by brave -- but misguided -- efforts to tell the truth.Truth-telling is at the heart of what is most central in women's lives. It is at the foundation of authenticity and creativity, intimacy and joy. Yet in the name of "honesty", we can bludgeon each other. We can approach a difficult issue with such a poor sense of timing and tact that we can actually shut down the lines of communication rather than widening the path of truth-telling.Sometimes Lerner's advice takes a surprising turn -- for example, when she asks us to engage in a bold act of pretending in order to discover something "more real"; or when she tells us not to parachute down on our family to bring up a "hot issue" without laying the necessary groundwork first.Whether the subject is affairs, family secrets, sexual faking or the challenge of "being oneself", Lerner helps us to discover, speak and live our own truths.

Sexual Pleasure: Reaching New Heights of Sexual Arousal and Intimacy


Barbara Keesling - 1993
    They can be performed by people of any sexual orientation, at any level of experience, and lead naturally to greater passion, sensitivity, and pleasure. This edition has been rewritten for greater clarity and includes the latest information on achieving mutual orgasm, including advanced lovemaking techniques such as shifting focus, peaking, and plateauing.

Handbook of Writing for the Mathematical Sciences


Nicholas J. Higham - 1993
    As is Higham's style, the material is enlivened by anecdotes, unusual paper titles, and humorous quotations. This handy new volume provides even more information on the issues you will face when writing a technical paper or talk, from choosing the right journal in which to publish to handling your references. Its overview of the entire publication process is invaluable for anyone hoping to publish in a technical journal. The original book has been completely revised, making use of feedback from readers as well as Higham's own large file of ideas based on his experiences in reading, writing, editing, examining, and supervising theses.

Life by Design: Making Wise Choices in a Mixed Up World


Rick Brinkman - 1993
    Perhaps life even seems to be unfolding beyond your control. You're not alone if you do. Chance, chaos, and adversity are constant forces in everyone's life. But amidst the inevitable challenges, you have the power to make choices. And through wise, positive choices, you have the power to change your life. Step by step, choice by choice, this book shows how to take charge of your life by making conscious choices that promote optimum physical and emotional well-being. Complete with personal stories, real-life examples, and revealing exercises, LIFE BY DESIGN helps you pinpoint the values that are truly and uniquely yours; set specific, attainable goals, and align your goals with your actions; learn how to use exercise as a power generator; break free of limiting perspectives and self-defeating behaviors; make positive choices that neutralize the negativity in your life, work to build a lasting, loving relationship with your partner, and more. Let LIFE BY DESIGN guide you to new attitudes and habits that will give you more energy, richer relationships, and a better quality of life. Dr. Rick Kirschner and Dr. Rick Brinkman are practicing naturopathic physicians and the co-owners of the training and consulting firm R&R Productions, Inc. They are also co-authors of the best-selling DEALING WITH PEOPLE YOU CAN'T STAND, as well as numerous audio and video programs. Dr. Kirschner lives in Ashland, Oregon. Dr. Brinkman lives in West Linn, Oregon.

Clear Speech: Pronunciation and Listening Comprehension in North American English--Student's Book


Judy B. Gilbert - 1993
    In addition, it teaches students to focus their attention on individual speech sounds that carry important grammatical meaning, such as the verb-final " d" that signals the past tense, and the noun-final " s" that signals plural. Students learn to use all these features to provide " navigational guides" for the listener. The focus on the relationship between speaking and listening comprehension makes this text uniquely helpful. Clear Speech is suitable as a classroom text, for laboratory use, and for self-study.

In Love and In Danger: A Teen's Guide to Breaking Free of Abusive Relationships


Barrie Levy - 1993
    Even more teens (as high as ninety-six percent) reported emotional and psychological abuse in their relationships.This revised and updated edition for teenagers who have questions about abusive dating relationships helps them understand the causes and consequences of their situation, learn what they can do about it, find help from parents and other adults, and discover how to build healthier relationships. In Love and in Danger is one of the only books available on dating violence and abusive relationships that addresses young adults directly in a straightforward and non-condescending manner. Included are facts about dating violence, tips for how to tell if your relationship is abusive, information on why dating abuse happens, and what you can do if you are being abused by (or are abusing) someone you love. Packed with practical advice and compelling interviews with teens, this edition features updated information and statistics, an expanded resource section, and a new afterword by the author.

PowerTalk!: The Power of Anticipation (Powertalk!)


Stephen R. Covey - 1993
    This paradigm shift frees us to positively reshape our goals and our vision of the future. Tape # 2: An interview with Dr. Stephen R. CoveyThe bestselling author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People presents a holistic, integrated, principle-centered approach for solving personal and professional problems - and reveals a step-by-step pathway for living with fairness, integrity, honesty and dignity. Special BonusA booklet featuring an excerpt from Marianne Williamsons's powerful and inspiring A Return to Love - a treasure of wisdom and knowledge that will enrich your life for years to come.

Celebrating the Other: A Dialogic Account of Human Nature


Edward E. Sampson - 1993
    This view, he demonstrates, focuses more on the leading protagonist and supporting cast that he has assembled to service his own interests, desires and fears, than on others as viable people in their own right. Denying the Other so as to create a world secured on behalf of the dominant groups' interests has become an obsession driving not only the larger culture but also the human sciences, in particular psychology's theories of human nature. Women, African-Americans and others not of the dominant classes have been constructed as serviceable Others, and appear in textbooks, journals and popular accounts as figures whose images and everyday realities have been created to serve the dominant groups' desires. Sampson uses the writings of Mikhail Bakhtin, George Herbert Mead, and postmodern and feminist theorists to reject this dangerous obsession and to create a dialogic foundation to replace the Other-suppressing views of psychology, and indeed, of all Western culture. Sampson's arguments are convincing, liberating, and have major implications for the human sciences and the people they claim to serve. 'Celebrating the Other' will change the way human nature is viewed and studied. As the author reminds us, in silencing the Other we distort our own situation and stunt our opportunities for growth - 'no one voice can be quoted without losing the greatest opportunity of all: to converse with otherness and to learn about our own otherness in and through those conversations.'

After the Fight: Using Your Disagreements to Build a Stronger Relationship


Daniel B. Wile - 1993
    I had a bad day and I took it out on you." Or, they wake up the next morning and pretend that nothing happened, hoping their partner will do the same. In neither case do they talk about the fight. They're too afraid that doing so will simply rekindle it--and they're right; it probably would. But since they don't talk about the fight, nothing ever really gets resolved.Daniel B. Wile, author of Couples Therapy and After the Honeymoon, devotes this entire book to an analysis of a single night in the life of a couple, Marie and Paul. By tapping into their self-talk (their ongoing conversations with themselves), he discovers what starts, escalates, and rekindles fights--and also, what potentially allows for a useful conversation about a fight. Wile reveals the half-thoughts and half-feelings that generally go unnoticed: the anxious flashes; depressive waves; two-second, self-directed diatribes; and two-second mental divorces.

Encouragements for the Emotionally Abused Woman: Wisdom and Hope for Women at Any Stage of Emotional Abuse Recovery


Beverly Engel - 1993
    We know how easy it can be to falter, to begin to feel the familiar self-doubt and fear. We need to be reminded that the abuse is not our fault. We need to find the motivation to trust our perceptions -- and find the courage to change our present reality.ENCOURAGEMENTS FOR THE EMOTIONALL ABUSED WOMAN addresses these needs. Whether we are just beginning to recognize that we are in abusive relationships or whether we have made the decision to break free, this book is here, a consistent reminder of positive growth. Written as a companion to Beverly Engel's landmark THE EMOTIONALLY ABUSED WOMAN, this volume of quotes, insights, feelings, and suggestions contains passages to be read and reread, turned to as a trusted friend, to help us grow stronger with each passing day. Any time, day or night, it is ready, on any page, to help, to heal, and to replenish the soul.

Gender and Conversational Interaction


Deborah Tannen - 1993
    The theoretical thrust of the collection, like that of Tannen's own work, is anthropological and sociolinguistic: female and male styles are approached as different cultural practice. Beginning with Tannen's own essay arguing for the relativity of discourse strategies, the volume challenges facile generalizations about gender-based styles and explores the complex relationship between gender and language use. The chapters, some previously unpublished and some classics in the field, address discourse across the lifespan, including preschool, junior high school, and adult interaction. They explore such varied discourse contexts as preschool disputes, romantic and sexual teasing among adolescent girls, cooperative competition in adolescent girl talk, conversational storytelling, a faculty committee meeting, children in an urban black neighborhood at play, and a legal dispute in a Tenejapan village in Mexico. Two chapters review and evaluate the literature on key areas of gender-related linguistic phenomena: interruption and amount of talk. Gender and Conversational Interaction will interest general readers as well as students and scholars in a variety of disciplines including linguistics, sociolinguistics, anthropology, sociology, psychology, women's studies, and communications.

When Listening Comes Alive


Paul Madaule - 1993
    In When Listening Comes Alive, Paul Madaule re-awakens a skill that we all have - a skill that can improve communication, creativity and learning ability, allowing a fuller and more energetic life. Paul demystifies Listening Training as both clinician and client. Diagnosed as dyslexic at an early age, he experienced a remarkable recovery with the help of Dr. Alfred Tomatis. Since then, at The Listening Centre in Toronto, Paul has helped thousands of people for over 35 years. He has summarized the listening training work and has included a unique selection of "Earobics", daily exercises that will allow you to develop and improve your listening skills on your own. This is a book about listening at all stages of life - for parents-to-be, hard working professionals, teachers, early childhood educators and parents seeking help for children with learning disabilities, ADHD or in the autistic spectrum. When Listening Comes Alive is a guide to a better and more fulfilling way of living.