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The Zen Commandments: Ten Suggestions for a Life of Inner Freedom


Dean Sluyter - 2001
    Do the right thing, of course-- but better yet, find your inner light and doing the right thing becomes as natural as breathing. THE ZEN COMMANDMENTS offers ten powerful nudges toward that light.Drawing on sources from Zen stories and the Bible to jazz and rock 'n' roll, from American movies to Tibetan meditative techniques, Dean Sluyter steers clear of dogma and emphasizes what works-- a sort of spiritual street smarts. He shows that the state of boundless freedom and happiness isn't something distant or exotic, but is right here, while you're stuck in traffic or taking out the trash. And revisiting the Ten Commandments, he shows how on a deeper level they offer some surprising enlightenment wisdom of their own.“The book is extremely well written and joyously entertaining.”—Publishers Weekly “With sparkling clarity and wit, Sluyter's ten suggestions lay out the practical essentials of the path. My suggestion is: listen to this guy.”—Lama Surya Das, author of Awakening the Buddha Within “Dean Sluyter clearly presents simple but profound ways to live one's life consciously and skillfully. He teaches that the source of universal truth not only rests in the heart of every one of us, but is the essence of what ultimately brings us true happiness and freedom. This is a wonderful book with rich wisdom and deep insight.”—Rabbi David Cooper, author of God Is a Verb “No matter what your religion (or lack of it), this book shows how to live the kind of life people ache for. It turns out to be pretty simple.”—Jane Cavolina, co-author of Growing Up Catholic

How to Build Self-Esteem and Be Confident: Overcome Fears, Break Habits, Be Successful and Happy


Maddy Malhotra - 2013
    This book has received great reviews from: Best selling authors, Clinical Psychologists, Media personnel, Entrepreneurs, Business Executives, Wellness coaches and people from all walks of life (few mentioned in the editorial reviews section on Amazon.com). About Author >> Maddy Malhotra is an International Motivational Speaker and Success Coach. He is a regular guest on radio and has been interviewed by stations worldwide including the BBC. He’s done motivational shows for well-being TV channels and has been featured in several national newspapers and health magazines. His life story has inspired hundreds of thousands worldwide. He lives in the UK and is involved in several Charity/non-profit projects. Maddy is passionate for helping people to achieve Success, Happiness and Self-Love. Maddy says >> I have shared the philosophies and principles which have been followed by every successful person and their roots can also be found in ancient wisdom. I have applied and lived these myself and my clients have benefited from it. I don’t want anyone to feel unworthy, unlovable, or incapable so I have revealed some very important facts which can help you live a happier and fulfilled life. These secrets affect every area of our lives every single day but are not taught at school and are rarely a part of parenting! This became the biggest reason for me to write this book and create seminars and home study course. “High Self esteem (self-belief), a fearless Positive Mind, Confidence in Your Abilities, Effective Habits and Clear Goals – are essential to create a Prosperous and Happy life” From the back cover >> “We need a Positive Self-Image for Career or Business Success, Ideal Body and Happy Relationships. ” Many hours and much money are spent every year in the pursuit of getting thinner, richer, more confident, ‘better’ jobs and fulfilling relationships. And yet we never quite seem to achieve what we desperately seek and we can’t seem to keep hold of it when we do. Why is this? Quite simply we sabotage our own efforts with ‘limiting beliefs’ about our capabilities and our worth. In this Easy to read and Practical book Maddy Malhotra aims to help us change that forever. If you have ever failed to achieve something you set out to do or achieved it and then lost it afterwards, this is the book for you. Learn why and how your beliefs are holding you back, what you can do about it and how You Can build Belief in Yourself. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain (including those elusive goals)! FACT: ‘They’ didn’t teach us the principles of success and happiness! This book can help you achieve >> More Time for Yourself, Happy Relationships, Clear & Effective Goal setting, Financial Success, Emotional Intelligence, Leadership Skills, Self Empowerment, Create a Positive Attitude, Mental Toughness, Positive Behaviour, Decision Making Skills, Inner Motivation, Self Love, Inner-Peace, Effective Parenting, Understanding 'How Life Works', High Self-Esteem, Boost / Increase Confidence, Overcome / Get rid of Fears, Break Bad Habits & develop new like the world class achievers, Be Successful, Be Happy, Be Peaceful, Forgiveness and daily Gratitude. If you like Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People or Brian Tracy’s books or the Chicken Soup for the Soul series (Jack Canfield), then you’ll like this too! Some readers of this book, who had read ‘The Secret’, realised why the ‘law of attraction’ didn’t work for them! You can read Maddy’s inspirational life story and his humanitarian projects at CoachMaddy.com Like many, you can also benefit from his personal development articles, media interviews, and blog.

Who Says You Can't? YOU DO


Daniel Chidiac - 2013
    His work didn't fulfill him, his relationships hurt him, and he was making choices that didn't align with his true values. But he did have the ability to know his own purpose--a gift we all have--and thus his journey began.Daniel studied the lives of great achievers, sought guidance from spiritual leaders, and discovered the secrets for shaping one's own destiny. He used his personal experience of changing his life to create this powerful seven-step guide to discovering your true self, committing to your own life, and pushing beyond your known limits.Standing out for his incisive wisdom and complete lack of gimmicks, Daniel Chidiac is an inspiring, insightful, and honest guide. His empowering system has spread organically, and it has already changed the lives of legions of readers. With practical exercises and interactive tools, this book challenges you to ask hard questions and make life-changing decisions--and ultimately guides you to the fulfillment you have been seeking. Get ready to be intrigued, fascinated, and amazed. Not by this book, but by your own power.

Procrastination: Why You Do It, What To Do About It


Jane B. Burka - 1982
    Burka and Lenora M. Yuen offer a probing, sensitive, and sometimes humorous look at the problem that troubles everyone. Revealing the reasons we put off tasks-fears of failure, success, control, separation, and attachment-the authors outline a practical, tested program to overcome procrastination. Candid and understanding, Procrastination is a must-have today for anyone who puts everything off until tomorrow.

Hitched


Teagan Kade - 2015
    I was ready to forget him... until he put that chivalry into action and went all dream man on me. Now he has a proposal—marry him for thirty days and pocket a million dollars in the process. It's a mutually beneficial arrangement, he says. He needs a wife to keep his company and I need money—bad. No job, a pending eviction and a dependent sister have seen to that. But I promised myself I'd only marry for love, that I wouldn't end up with a cheating ass like my father. I've got trust issues, yes, but they're sure as hell justified. It’s only supposed to be a temporary arrangement, a business transaction, but I’m not so sure. Question is, can a relationship that started as a sham become something more, something... amazing?

Let's Talk: ...About Making Your Life Exciting, Easier, And Exceptional


Art Rios - 2020
    All the time. But why? For what?In the first book in the Let’s Talk series, bon vivant Art Rios talks about how to make life exciting, easier, exceptional, and filled with pleasures— right now. It’s straight talk about modern times. Simple ways to unwind and enjoy life. Let’s Talk is about anything and everything. From happy hour to self-realization. From pursuing pleasures to pandemics to decluttering your life. From gratitude and kindness to lazy Sundays.Whether you’re 18 or 80, it’s never too late to make the most of your life. Join Art and start talking about how to make your life an all-out blast, today.

The Longevity Project: Surprising Discoveries for Health and Long Life from the Landmark Eight-Decade Study


Howard S. Friedman - 2011
    Andrew Weil calls "a remarkable achievement with surprising conclusions"--upends the advice we have been told about how to live to a healthy old age. We have been told that the key to longevity involves obsessing over what we eat, how much we stress, and how fast we run. Based on the most extensive study of longevity ever conducted, The Longevity Project exposes what really impacts our lifespan-including friends, family, personality, and work.Gathering new information and using modern statistics to study participants across eight decades, Dr. Howard Friedman and Dr. Leslie Martin bust myths about achieving health and long life. For example, people do not die from working long hours at a challenging job- many who worked the hardest lived the longest. Getting and staying married is not the magic ticket to long life, especially if you're a woman. And it's not the happy-go-lucky ones who thrive-it's the prudent and persistent who flourish through the years.With questionnaires that help you determine where you are heading on the longevity spectrum and advice about how to stay healthy, this book changes the conversation about living a long, healthy life.

Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It


Allan Pease - 1998
    Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again.

The Smart Money Woman


Arese Ugwu - 2016
    She’s living a fabulous life. Great car, gorgeous apartment, well paid job. Meet Zuri. Broken down car, an apartment she cant afford, a job she’s about to lose. What’s a broke girl to do? With her best friends Tami (the flighty fashion designer), Lara (the tough oil and gas executive), Adesuwa (the conservative lawyer), and Ladun (the fabulous housewife), Zuri grows a little, learns a lot and navigates her way to making better financial decisions and building wealth. This book tackles, debt, spending, the consumerist culture of the African middle class, the fear and misconceptions surrounding money and the lack of it, love, friendships, cultural and societal pressures and the roles they play in success. With each chapter comes a Smart Money Lesson, there to help you work your way up the financial ladder.

Passages: Predictable Crises of Adult Life


Gail Sheehy - 1976
    You'll recognize yourself, your friends, and your loves. You'll see how to use each life crisis as an opportunity for creative change -- to grow to your full potential. Gail Sheehy's brilliant road map of adult life shows the inevitable personality and sexual changes we go through in our 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond. The Trying 20s -- The safety of home left behind, we begin trying on life's uniforms and possible partners in search of the perfect fit. The Catch 30s -- illusions shaken, it's time to make, break, or deepen life commitments. The Forlorn 40s -- Dangerous years when the dreams of youth demand reassessment, men and women switch characteristics, sexual panic is common, but the greatest opportunity for self-discovery awaits. The Refreshed (or Resigned) 50s -- Best of life for those who let go old roles and find a renewal of purpose.

Power Thoughts


Louise L. Hay - 1999
    A year's worth of positive affirmations, to be read in no particular order, will help create a new way of thinking, acting, and feeling.

Lucy's Legacy: The Quest for Human Origins


Donald C. Johanson - 2009
    She is perhaps the best known and most studied fossil hominid of the twentieth century, the benchmark by which other discoveries of human ancestors are judged.”–From Lucy’s LegacyIn his New York Times bestseller, Lucy: The Beginnings of Humankind, renowned paleoanthropologist Donald Johanson told the incredible story of his discovery of a partial female skeleton that revolutionized the study of human origins. Lucy literally changed our understanding of our world and who we come from. Since that dramatic find in 1974, there has been heated debate and–most important–more groundbreaking discoveries that have further transformed our understanding of when and how humans evolved. In Lucy’s Legacy, Johanson takes readers on a fascinating tour of the last three decades of study–the most exciting period of paleoanthropologic investigation thus far. In that time, Johanson and his colleagues have uncovered a total of 363 specimens of Australopithecus afarensis (Lucy’s species, a transitional creature between apes and humans), spanning 400,000 years. As a result, we now have a unique fossil record of one branch of our family tree–that family being humanity–a tree that is believed to date back a staggering 7 million years.Focusing on dramatic new fossil finds and breakthrough advances in DNA research, Johanson provides the latest answers that post-Lucy paleoanthropologists are finding to questions such as: How did Homo sapiens evolve? When and where did our species originate? What separates hominids from the apes? What was the nature of Neandertal and modern human encounters? What mysteries about human evolution remain to be solved?Donald Johanson is a passionate guide on an extraordinary journey from the ancient landscape of Hadar, Ethiopia–where Lucy was unearthed and where many other exciting fossil discoveries have since been made–to a seaside cave in South Africa that once sheltered early members of our own species, and many other significant sites. Thirty-five years after Lucy, Johanson continues to enthusiastically probe the origins of our species and what it means to be human.

Not My Will, but Thine


Neal A. Maxwell - 2002
    Maxwell explores the important principle of willing, loving submission to our Heavenly Father. The Savior s greatest test and greatest ­triumph ­the ­Atonement personifies this attitude. The author offers sound advice on the compelling reasons to be submissive as well as on the ­ how to. There is no way to go around in this ­life ­we have to go through it. Elder Maxwell shows that this is not a sacrifice of will, but an elevation to a higher purpose promising a life of faith, peace, and ­joy.

The Ayn Rand Cult


Jeff Walker - 1998
    In this book, Jeff Walker debunks the cult-like following that developed around the author of the classics Atlas Shrugged and The Fountainhead--a cult that persists even today.

Better Never to Have Been: The Harm of Coming into Existence


David Benatar - 2006
    (2) It is always wrong to have children. (3) It is wrong not to abort fetuses at the earlier stages of gestation. (4) It would be better if, as a result of there being no new people, humanity became extinct. These views may sound unbelievable--but anyone who reads Benatar will be obliged to take them seriously.