The Cow in the Parking Lot: A Zen Approach to Overcoming Anger


Leonard Scheff - 2008
    Domestic violence. Professionally angry TV and radio commentators. We’re a society that is swimming in anger, always about to snap. Leonard Scheff, a trial attorney, once used anger to fuel his court persona, until he came to realize just how poisonous anger is. That and his intense study of Buddhism and meditation changed him. His transformation can be summarized in a simple parable: Imagine you are circling a crowded parking lot when, just as you spot a space, another driver races ahead and takes it. Easy to imagine the rage. But now imagine that instead of another driver, a cow has lumbered into that parking space and settled down. The anger dissolves into bemusement. What really changed? You—your perspective.Using simple Buddhist principles and applying them in a way that is easy for non-Buddhists to understand and put into practice, Scheff and Edmiston have created an interactive book that helps readers change perspective, step by step, so that they can replace the anger in their lives with a newfound happiness. Based on the successful anger management program Scheff created, The Cow in the Parking Lot shows how anger is based on unmet demands, and introduces the four most common types—Important and Reasonable (you want love from your partner); Reasonable but Unimportant (you didn’t get that seat in the restaurant window); Irrational (you want respect from a stranger); and the Impossible (you want someone to fix everything wrong in your life).Scheff and Edmiston show how, once we identify our real unmet demands we can dissolve the anger; how, once we understand our "buttons," we can change what happens when they’re pushed. He shows how to laugh at ourselves—a powerful early step in changing angry behavior. By the end, as the reader continues to observe and fill in the exercises honestly, it won’t matter who takes that parking space—only you can make yourself angry.

Buddha on the Bus


Nate Damm - 2014
    When various complications arise during the journey, Nate finds himself focusing closely on the characters around him for a bit of entertainment, but ends up getting more than he bargained for. The focal point of the story is Nate's seat-mate, a young man named Bud, whose extremely odd behavior catches the attention of everyone on the bus.

Buddha in Blue Jeans: An Extremely Short Simple Zen Guide to Sitting Quietly and Being Buddha


Tai Sheridan - 2011
    Sitting quietly can teach many ways to accept life, meet pain, age gracefully, and die without regret. The book encourages sitting quietly every day.Topics include: Sit Quietly; Care For Your Body; Accept Your Feelings; Give Thoughts Room; Pain is Natural; Be Who You Are; Live Each Moment Well; Love Indiscriminately; Listen to Others; Be Surprised; Wonder; Live gratefully; Do No Harm; Benefit life; A Wish for The World. The book is for people of any faith, religion, race, nationality, gender, relationship status, capacity, or meditation background.

Evolving Dharma: Meditation, Buddhism, and the Next Generation of Enlightenment


Jay Michaelson - 2013
    Fearless, unorthodox, and irreverent scholar and activist Jay Michaelson shows how meditation and mindfulness have moved from ashrams and self-help groups to classrooms and hospitals, and offers unusually straight talk about the “Big E”— enlightenment. Michaelson introduces us to maverick brainhackers, postmodern Buddhist monks, and cutting-edge neuroscientists and shares his own stories of months-long silent retreats, powerful mystical experiences, and many pitfalls along the way. Evolving Dharma is a must-read for the next-generation meditator, the spiritually cynical, and the curious adventurer in all of us.

Buddhism Ultimate Collection


Paul Carus - 2010
    Imagine the serenity you will find when you understand it. Imagine what your renewed life will be like...To achieve this, do you want a book that will easily explain ALL Buddhist concepts?Then you want the Buddhism Ultimate Collection from 'Everlasting Flames Publishing'.DESIGNED WITH YOU IN MINDThink Buddhism is difficult? There is no need to feel that. This collection is designed to make Buddhism simple, easy-to-follow and enjoyable, so you can apply it to your life quickly.These works are from acclaimed Buddhist Zen Masters and Experts, guaranteed to provide the rejuvenating knowledge you want.'THE BEST BUDDHISM BOOK YOU CAN GET...'In this 'must-have' collection, in an easy to navigate Kindle eBook, you get the following works:*ZEN FOR AMERICANS – SERMONS OF A BUDDHIST ABBOTHistoric series of electrifying lectures, explaining Buddhism.From SOYEN SHAKUBuddhist Abbot, Zen Master and Elder Master.First Zen Master to teach in the USA.CHAPTERS INCLUDE:What is Buddhism?Buddhist FaithGod-Conception of Buddhism*BUDDHIST CATECHISM - QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS In use around the world to teach Buddhism, this has simple Questions and Answers concerning Buddha and all Buddhism Concepts, showing their use in modern society. Certified by Buddhist High Priests.Written by HENRY S. OLCOTTAmerican Military Officer, Journalist, Lawyer. Known as the man who created a renaissance in the study of Buddhism. Honored in Sri Lanka for his efforts as major Buddhism revivalist.CHAPTERS INCLUDE:Understanding DharmaBuddhism and ScienceFundamental Beliefs*WAY TO NIRVANASeries of 6 in-depth lectures given on Buddhism.From PROFESSOR DE LA VALLE-POUSSIN Ph. DExpert in Sanskrit, Pali, Avestan and Oriental languages. Holder of several Doctorates, one achieved at the age of 19.CHAPTERS INCLUDE:The Buddhist SoulNirvana - No SufferingPath to Nirvana*LIFE OF BUDDHAThe original epic poem about the Buddha.Written by Asvaghosha Bodhisattva, the legendary Indian poet.Translated from Chinese into English by the famous Samuel Beal.*BUDDHA, THE PLAYA play and story to help make Buddhism easy to understand.Written by PROFESSOR PAUL CARUS, Ph.D. Expert in Comparative Religion. Professor of Philosophy. First managing editor of the Open Court Publishing Company.YOUR FREE BONUSES: *THE DHAMMAPADA (WITH INTRODUCTION)Most respected of Buddhist texts, written by the Buddha himself.Sometimes called ‘The Path to Eternal Truth’ or ‘The Path to Righteousness’.Translated by respected F. MAX MULLERGerman Philologist and OrientalistFounder of the discipline of Comparative Religion.*SUTRA OF THE 42 CHAPTERS (WITH COMMENTARY)The earliest Buddhist sutras (rules/formulas). Highly regarded as "the First Sutra" or first formula of Buddhism. YOUR EXCLUSIVE, ENVIABLE COLLECTIONImagine the knowledge and understanding you will get from these works. Imagine the calm inner life you will discover.DON'T MISS OUTAs you read this, you understand why you have to have this astonishing collection because it will help discover the calm serenity you deserve. Don’t miss out on the amazing words others are finding out about.And available on the Kindle, this big collection is yours for next to nothing.GET THIS BUDDHISM ULTIMATE COLLECTION RIGHT NOW and start living the world of Buddhism.'Everlasting Flames Publishing' is devoted to keeping the classics burning bright. Also available in the Kindle Store:*William Shakespeare Ultimate Collection: 213 Plays Poems and Sonnets*Ultimate Mythology Collection:50+ Books - Iliad, Odyssey, Oedipus and More ALL in One

Appreciate Your Life: The Essence of Zen Practice


Taizan Maezumi - 2001
    These short, inspiring readings illuminate Zen practice in simple, eloquent language. Topics include zazen and Zen koans, how to appreciate your life as the life of the Buddha, and the essential matter of life and death. Appreciate Your Life conveys Maezumi Roshi's unique spirit and teaching style, as well as his timeless insights into the practice of Zen. Never satisfied with merely conveying ideas, his teisho, the Zen talks he gave weekly and during retreats, evoked personal questions from his students. Maezumi Roshi insisted that his students address these questions in their own lives. As he often said, "Be intimate with your life." The readings are not teachings or instructions in the traditional sense. They are transcriptions of the master's teisho, living presentations of his direct experience of Zen realization. These teisho are crystalline offerings of Zen insight intended to reach beyond the student's intellect to her or his deepest essence.